I meet two of my best lady friends at a local Starbucks. We go running, usually about 6 miles depending on who's injured or training for longer distances. Then we sit and have coffee. Great bonding time. I tell folks that guys have a Saturday golf game, this is that same kind of time for us.
Last Sunday, as I waited by the counter for our steaming coffees to come up, I noticed a 3-ring binder resting to the side. Ever curious, I took a glance and noticed it was the Starbucks training manual. Inside were instructions for making every possible combination of coffees. What really caught my attention was what was on the outside. It was a one sheet declaration of Starbuck's purpose.
"Our Starbucks Mission," it was titled. "To inspire and nurture the human spirit--one person, one cup, and one neighborhood at a time.
It goes on to describe, "our coffee, our partners, our customers, our stores, and our neighborhood."
This delights me!
Why?
Because it reflects the, hands down, best advice I've received since I stepped away from the corporate world of journalism and went out on my own.
You hear all about needing a business plan when you start your own business. My friend, Dana Hughes, taught me that I need something far more important than that.
"You need a Belief Plan," she said.
"A Belief Plan?" Like most of you, I had never heard of such a thing.
Yes, a Belief Plan. Dana explained how I needed to sit down with a pad and paper or my computer or whatever and commit my beliefs to a document. What are my beliefs? My values? My intentions? My non-negotiables?
Trust me, it's a heady and exciting exercise. Why do it? It's helped me get clear on who I am, what I do, and why I do it. Dana likes to say, "The clearer you get, the faster it comes, and the more you know what to do with it."
From a visual perspective, I like to think of it as drawing the map of the house that is my life. As people, opportunities, and situations show up at the front door, my Belief Plan helps me know where each one goes to help build my dreams and support the kind of life I believe in living. It's also helpful for telling what and who doesn'tget past the front door.
It appears one person's house plan is another company's cup of coffee.
Good for you, Starbucks!
By the way, just as life and time can change us, I know my Belief Plan also adjusts as time goes on. The first one I created 3 years ago looks different than the one I worked on 6 months ago.
Recently, I took the time to get clear once again on the purpose and intention of this website and the content I create for other projects.
This is what I came up with:
I'm dedicated to bringing you uplifting stories of hope, inspiration and courage that will make your heart go zing. You l have an opportunity to experience the ways ordinary people can rise above challenging circumstances to improve their lives and the world around them. You can expect to feel and connect with moments that show the world what's possible and the triumph of the human spirit, along with the ability to participate in a community where you can share and discuss inspiring stories.
That's my intention, which I believe reflect my values and beliefs. I hope I'm living up to that for you.
What about you? Do you have a mission statement, intention, or values for your life? Please share over on my Facebook Page.
March 9, 2010: Would've Brought You With Me, If I Could
It happened again last Thursday night. Because of my job--running this destination for inspiring news I found myself in the company of two incredible people.
Rafraf Barrak is the young Iraqi woman who worked as Don's translator as he covered the war in Baghdad for NBC News.
They have a new book out called Saved By Her Enemy. In it they share their incredible story of how a young woman raised in a devout Muslim Iraqi household came to live with Don's Christian family in the Bible Belt of America. As they worked side by side in Iraq, Rafraf was Don's lifeline to getting great stories. It also became clear that her working for Americans marked her for death.
Their book tour brought them through Atlanta last week so I went to interview and hang out with them for the hour before a fascinating speaking engagement. That's why I wish I could've brought you with me.
You, too, would've been able to hear Rafraf's incredible story. How she was raised to fear and hate Americans, yet now can't begin to tell you how much she loves this country and all that it has to offer.
You would've heard Don share the story of realizing he and his family were being called to do something really big, even if it seemed crazy.
"What did that phone call home to your wife sound like?" I had to wonder.
You'll actually hear Don's answer in today's featured story.
But there is only so much I can pack into a two minute video.
The extras?
Those would include getting to hear Rafraf talk about the basic goodness of people. It has taken some time for her and her family to wrap their heads around the idea that people they thought were their enemy would take in a young woman, help her get aclamated to a new culture and set up in an American university so that she could get her masters degree. What have they asked for in exchange? Nothing.
It's also fascinating to hear Rafraf talk about being the ultimate fish out of water. In the last few years she's learned everything from how to ride a bike, drive, and use an ATM machine. Oh yeah, all while pursuing her master's degree in political science and questioning everything she was brought up to believe from who is good; who is evil to fundamental choices about her faith.
When you watch the video you'll see much has changed for Rafraf. From how what she believes to how she dresses.
She and Don hope by telling their story they might just change a tiny bit of our hearts.
Spending time with them Thursday night I was reminded of the good in people everywhere, how good it does feel to help someone else just because, and how good it feels to have the courage to look at a situation differently than others try to convince us.
I hope you get just a piece of that from the video here on DarynKagan.com. For an even bigger dose I hope you take Don and Rafraf up on their invitation to join them in their book.
March 5, 2010: Who Are You Wearing?
"Who are you wearing?"
That's the big question that will be asked over and over again Sunday on Oscars red carpet.
I know because I spent many years asking it as I covered the Oscars and many other awards shows for CNN. My answer over the years varied from Vera Wang to Badgley Mischka. The zillion dollar jewels I borrowed always came from Fred Leighton Jewelers.
I am so glad I had those experiences. I'm just as glad that this year I will be wearing Nick and Nora. Yeah, as in the fun flannel pajamas you can buy at Target. Instead of the red carpet, I'll be on my red couch at home. Comfy. Slippers instead of six inch heels. Yay!
The change of venue and life assignment also means a much more relaxed viewing schedule. When I covered the Oscars and worked the red carpet, I had to see EVERYTHING. After all, you never knew who you would be able to grab for an interview so you had to be ready to to anyone about their big movie and night. This would often mean going beyond the call of duty, as I've made not secret here of how uncomfortable I am watching what I call "bad dream movies."
Yes, all those years covering traditional news and every awful, horrifying story didn't cost me a wink of sleep. But show me one movie with a lick of violence or just a touch scary and I'm up for days. Don't know what'sthat's about, but has been true since I was a kid afraid to watch "Starsky and Hutch." My brother used to try to convince me to watch, "I promise, they don't die. It's a TV series they need to be back next week." No matter, even the suggestion of Huggy Bear, the affable pimp, could make me tremble.
With that information in mind, you won't be surprised that the Oscar-related movies I've seen this year are: Crazy Heart, Up In The Air, Julie & Julia, and The Blind Side.
That's it. I'm done. No need or desire to see Precious.The Hurt Locker? Please, even the little clips I've seen on TV give me the heebie jeebies. I could imagine going to see Avatar in 3D to see what all the technology fuss is about. But honestly, I would want to go for 30 minutes, see the whiz bang oh wow technology and then walk out. 3 hours? That's bringing back real life bad dreams of having to sit through the Lord of the Ring movies. Wait, was there more than one? Or did it just seem like 10? Here's how I summarize those movies: There's a cute hobbit. A bad thing happens. There's a cute hobbit. A bad thing happens. Repeat over and over again.
I will say the only other movie hanging out there that I'd like to see is Up. I hear great things about that. Might get around to it tonight. Maybe not. If not, it'll be all about getting my look right for Sunday night. So much to do! Must decide on which scrunchy I'll use to make ponytail on top of my head. And which fuzzy pair of slippers will go best with those flannel jammies.
What about you? Who are you wearing Oscar night? Any favorite movies you are rooting for? Please share over on my Facebook page.
February 24, 2010: ESPN Blew It
I'm going to step out the usual confines of this blog to share my two cents on a breaking news story in the world of sports broadcasting.
ESPN has suspended Pardon The Interruption host Tony Kornheiser for comments he made on his radio show about fellow ESPN personality Hannah Storm's clothing.
According to FoxSports.com Kornheiser reportedly said, "Hannah Storm in a horrifying, horrifying outfit today," Kornheiser said. "She's got on red go-go boots and a catholic school plaid skirt … way too short for somebody in her 40s or maybe early 50s by now.
"She's got on her typically very, very tight shirt. She looks like she has sausage casing wrapping around her upper body … I know she's very good, and I'm not supposed to be critical of ESPN people, so I won't … but Hannah Storm … come on now! Stop! What are you doing?"
And for that ESPN has suspended Tony Kornheiser for two weeks.
So folks are asking me on Twitter and Facebook what I think about that.
Why me? Well, in another life I covered sports at CNN for 3 1/2 years. So I know only too well what it means to work in that arena. I learned very quickly that there are few jobs more fun. I also learned very quickly that sports is still a man's world unlike few professions. I knew that if a male colleague messed up an athlete's name, the response would be, "Oh, Fred messed up a name." If I messed up a name, the response would be, "Oh, she doesn't know sports." Was that fair? Absolutely not. Were those the rules of the game? Absolutely. I knew that going in. I knew that I had to know my names, stats, and stories cold. If I didn't like the rules of the game, then I figured I shouldn't be playing in that arena.
Let me also say that I think the world of Hannah Storm. Boy, does she know her stuff. Even in the middle of his ridiculous rant, Kornheiser acknowledged she is "very good."
All that being said, I think ESPN blew it. They decided to pull the PC card and protect the woman's honor. Bad move. If you follow the sports world, you know ESPN has developed into a cesspool male sports personalities with way too many sexual harassment situations. The latest one came just a few months ago when married baseball analyst Steve Phillips got involvedwith an entry-level young woman half his age. They've both been let go. It's just the latest in a long line of embarrassing stories for the network. I think that's why they went PC making statement with Kornheiser's suspension.
The difference is Hannah isn't some little girl, she's a well-respected peer and colleague. I promise you ESPN would not have suspended Kornheiser if he made a comment about John Kruk's weight or if he thought Mike Golic wore an ugly shirt. Besides, Tony is hired to do opinion. That's his job! You're suspending him for the very thing you're supposed to pay him for.
One rule of the TV game is that it is a visual medium. People are looking at you. Any woman who has worked in sports has had someone comment on her appearance and what she wears. Any woman who has worked news has covered a huge story has had her own mother comment, "I don't think I like that blue blazer." When I told my own mother back in 2003 that I was heading off to cover the start of the war her response was, "What are you going to wear?" (True story.)
Can it be frustrating that viewers focus on what women wear first before listening to what they say? Absolutely. But like I said, it's one of the rules of the game. If you don't like it, don't play.
What I see here is a missed opportunity. There was such a ripe chance here to deal with this thing with humor. I mean have you seen Tony Kornheiser? I'm a huge fan of his PTI show, but really, someone who looks like Tony commenting on anyone's appearance? That's the softest toss for a punch line ever.
So, to Hannah I would say, brush it off, come out swinging with those red boots. You're great at your job. You know your sports as well as Kornheiser or any of the other dudes. You're fitter and have a better physique than Kornheiser could ever dream of having. Add that all up, my friend, and walk on with the last laugh.
ESPN-- instead of focusing defending a woman's honor why don't you give us women sports fans more of what really counts--even higher profile roles for women like Hannah, Suzie Kolber, Linda Cohn and Reschiea Candidate? How about for once, let's see saucy, opinionated woman kick up their boots by filling in on PTI? Now that would be a worthwhile move.
I guess when someone knows you since 1st day of kindergarten, they know you pretty well. At least that's the case with Cyndi and me.
"I think you would really like this," she steered sometime last Spring.
By "this" she meant becoming a "Big" as in Big Brothers Big Sisters of America. She wasn't coming out of nowhere. She's actually worked for the organization for a long time and has seen first hand the magic that comes out of a great match between an interested adult and a kid ready to see the more of the world.
She also probably did some math: Kid Loving Womanwith nokidlets of her own + more godchildren than she has fingers = someone who just might want to direct some energy toward doing some good in the world.
That's not to say the math added up to at first. "I'm busy building my company. I don't want to get mixed up in someone else's family drama. Really?" were all among my protestations.
All of which was to say I wasn't ready. And as we all know you can't force anyone who's not ready.
I think it was sometime last May or June that I got ready. I was having a sad Sunday. Can't even tell you why. Does there have to be a reason? Sundays can just be that way, I find for lots of folks whether it represents the eve before going back to school or work or just shining a light on a part of your heart that doesn't feel filled up.
It could've been your garden variety pity party. Instead, a voice in my head crashed with a big time pity party pooper message. "You can sit here and swirl," it pointed out, "which of course, we know how that movie ends, or you can do something proactive."
That's how I ended up on the Big Brothers Big Sisters website that late Spring afternoon.
I'm so glad I did because becoming a Big has become one big shot of joy and purpose in my life.
The BBBS folks might want to think about running a dating website on the side, because let me tell you--these folks know how to make a match. 9-year-old Rodneisha might be growing up in circumstances completely different from what I did, but it feels like I found 4th grade Daryn.
She loves school, loves to read, loves to ask questions and just think about stuff. They tell you in "Big" training to be ready for an awkward "getting to know you" time. The kids might be shy and not talk much. Not my girl! Her seat belt is barely buckled in my back seat before she's off to the races sharing what she learned in school this week, the new book she checked out of the library, and the scary movie she watched the night before. (That is actually one thing we don't have in common, but I think she gets a kick out of the idea that scary movies give me bad dreams. She says she's helping me grow. "It's just good stories and characters!" she insists.)
The stuff that comes out of this kid's mouth! "I get to write an essay on the early American colonies," she told me today. "I like the New England ones the best because of all the stuff they did to get away from a bad king." That led into a discussion about why people came to America. The difference between slaves and indentured servants and how amazedshe was that some freed slaves even owned slaves themselves. I suspect like all her schoolwork, she's going to ace the essay.
Today, we headed to one of our favorite diners for lunch. She's a pro now at looking the waitress straight in the eye and placing her order. "French toast, please, and for my healthy choice I'll have fresh strawberries." That one actually took a little guidance. We talked about how it's good to have a fun thing like French Toast, but it's also important to make a healthy choice. As I looked down the menu of the greasy spoon, I realized this might not be the best place to introduce that concept. "English muffin?" she asked. "Well, actually, if you're already having French Toast, then English muffin probably isn't the best choice. What else looks good?" That's how she found her way to fresh strawberries and with a little nudge, even agreed to forego the optional whipped cream on top, understanding that would pretty much negate the healthy choice status.
As usual, the day was filled with questions. "Who fills up those giant silver container holding all the iced tea?" she wanted to know. "Let's ask Kara, our waitress," I suggested. God bless waitress Kara who patiently explained that's the waitress' job to do that, but if they get to heavy they ask some men to help carry them out to the front counter.
As we walked DarlaDog along a nearby stream, up came the question, "Why does Darla have to poop after every time she swims?" Don't really know, but I do know it's one thing in life, my friend, you can count on.
And as I was driving her home, this came from the back seat: "I don't get it. How come if the Earth is always moving we are always facing the same direction?" Oh boy. Best I could do on that one was offer that it would be a bit easier to explain with some balls or globes when I wasn't doing 70 driving down the highway.
I share all this at the risk of sounding like real parents talking too much about their kids.
It's just to say there is a joy in my life. She's 9 1/2 years old. Our growing friendship is supported by a wonderful organization that gives us incredible support, constantly checking up on us giving us guidance.
If you have just two hours a month and love kids I highly encourage you to find your local BBBS.org chapter. There's a great match waiting for you, too.
So thanks to my local Atlanta chapter, our match support coordinator, Ethel, Rodneisha's mom who shares her special daughter with me each week. Thanks to Rodneisha's real life big sister and little brother who gift me with bonus hugs every time I pick up their sister. Thanks to spectacular Miss Rodneisha.
And Cyndi--Many thanks to you. You were right. I really like this.
February 18, 2010: Hallelujah! Olympics!
I'm tucking away moments and personalities in my mental scrapbook as I watch the Winter Olympics.
So fun and amazing to see Shaun White's "Just For Fun" final snowboard run last night. When his American teammate crashed, White realized he had won the Gold Medal based on his first run. He could do whatever he wanted. And he did, flying up to the Vancouver moon with more twists and turns than a Jackie Collins novel.
I loved seeing the emotional Lindsay Vonn win gold, as well, achieving this downhill skier's lifetime dream. And it will be a long time before I forget the bright pink tassle and "bandaids" on figure skater Johnny Weir's costume.
As for soul stirring moments? Right now, the lead contender is KD Lang singing Leonard Cohen's "Hallelujah." Apparently, there is some sort of online buzz criticizing NBC for not taking enough tight close ups of Lang. Personally, I don't care. Why? Because I suggest you watch her performance, close your eyes, and let yourself be transported to a higher place.
What are your favorite Olympic moments and athletes so far? Please share in our social online community.
February 10, 2010: The Power Of Half
It could be so easy to dismiss the Salwens.
They are the featured story today. The Atlanta family who decided to sell their big house, move into a smaller one, and give half the profits to charity. We're talking hundreds of thousands of dollars. Check out the story to see what they chose to do to make the world a better place.
Like I said, easy to dismiss them. And trust me, they're hearing plenty of critics. Dad Kevin told me they're being called everything from idealistic rich fools to socialists. Pretty impressive range there, I must say.
Kevin will be the first to tell you they get it. Mostpeople do not have the latitude to make such a grand move. But this family of four figured out something pretty big while going through this process. Most people, dare I say, everyone, has half of something they could give away.
Daughter Hannah explained to me the 3 T's: "Time, trinket, or treasure."
Inventory your life. There is something you have more than enough of. Two hours wasted each week could be one hour volunteering at the cause of your choice. Trinkets could mean that overstuffed closet. Do you really wear ALL of those clothes? Could you give away half your closet? And sure, treasure might mean that you have enough money and could afford to give more. Maybe not a half a house, but perhaps half your weekly cafe latte' budget?
The Salwens write about their journey in their new book, The Power Of Half. They're not trying to guilt you into doing anything. They just want to share the fun they've had as a family giving away a big gift. It's not about making hooray for them. It's about sharing the idea that you actually have everything you already need to feel powerful and make a difference in the world for the causes you believe in.
Looks like the Salwens have given more than a big cash gift. They've given us something very fun and powerful to think about.
What could you give away half of? Where would you like to make an impact?
February 8, 2010: Could Your Championship Be Next?
Congratulations to the New Orleans Saints and their exciting victory in Super Bowl XLIV last night!
I enjoyed having folks over and watching a very exciting game. But this morning I'm smiling about more than just the X's and O's.
I'm thinking about the hope that many of the players, the team, and the city of New Orleans brings to any of us facing challenges today.
Are you feeling overwhelmed and underwater today? No town understands that more than New Orleans. Just a little over four years ago it was literally underwater courtesy of Hurricane Katrina. This morning it proudly celebrates its first Super Bowl title ever feeling more golden than all the medals around Michael Phelps Olympic neck.
How about quarterback Drew Brees? You think life and this game has always been easy for him? Consider that he wasn't recruited by big time college programs coming out of high school, despite being undefeated for two years as starting quarterback at his Texas high school.
He went onto turn in a record-breaking career at Purdue. Still not good enough. He fell to the second round in the 2001 draft. The general consensus was that 6' tall he was too short to be an outstanding NFL quarterback. Michael Vick, yes, he of felony dog fighting charges, went 31 picks ahead of Brees thatyear.
Can't you just feel that frustration? Why do all those people not believe in me? Why are they picking someone else? You might have never been part of an NFL draft, but I bet you've had that feeling. I know I have.
And get this-the slights continued for Brees. The San Diego Chargers drafted him in the second round in 2001. He had a successful career in San Diego, but when it came time to sign a new deal in 2006, he had a bum shoulder and again a lot of doubters. That's when the New Orleans decided he was their man. It's a story that all leads up to last night's championship.
My point is I think we all understand the frustration of feeling like we will never overcome, like we will never get out from under the flood of water and problems that feel like they are beating us.
And I know only too well how easy it is to focus on others who appear to be getting picked ahead of where we think we deserve to be.
Drew Brees believes his entire journey of success and snubs was always unfolding just as it was supposed to---leading him to New Orleans where he has now led the city to the best possible symbol of rebirth.
So that's what I'm thinking about today. That it's not about getting picked and people getting it when I think they should. It's about doing like Drew Brees--showing up like a champion at each stage no matter who appreciates it or not. And about trusting that not getting picked is just as important as getting picked. Together they're working together to direct me to exactly the place I'm meant to go.
After all, it's possible the championship is right around the corner.
February 3, 2010: Super Duper Super Bowl Ads!
The Super Bowl is still 4 days away. Plenty of time for me to get the spread together for friends who are coming over to watch the big game.
Meanwhile, I'm very excited to for the Super Bowl ads. They're always great and this year there are a couple I will especially be keeping an eye out for.
I'm so proud to say that my sister, Kallan, has produced one of the biggest ads this year. She let me have a sneak peek yesterday. Oops. I don't know if I was supposed to share that.
I can tell you it features two of the biggest names in the NBA, one NBA legend and some pretty cool special effects. Please keep an eye out for that one and make, "Hooray!" for my sister when it runs!
And I'm looking forward to seeing what the folks at Miller Lite Beer do with their time. This year, they decided to buy time and use it featuring four small businesses. The folks at the company say "Miller High Life is all about common sense and nothing makes more sense than giving deserving small businesses the opportunity to be a part of the big game," said Miller High Life brand manager Joe Abegg. "What better way to show our appreciation for hard-working Americans who share High Life's values than by providing a prime-time stage for a few to tell their story?"
The Business Journal newspaper reports the ads, "will feature the owners of Del's Barber Shop in Escondido, Calif.; Tim's Baseball Card Shop in Chicago; Loretta's Authentic Pralines in New Orleans; and Bizarre Guitar & Drum in Phoenix."
How cool is that? A big time company giving a platform to small businesses who could never afford such an opportunity.
There sure is going to be plenty to cheer for Sunday and that's before I've even figured out if I'm rooting for the Saints or the Colts.
February 1, 2010: I Want What That Feels Like
You don't want anything.
Fight me on this.
Go ahead.
I stand by my statement. You, me, each one of us. Not a single one of us wants a single thing. No we want what we think the thing we want feels like.
My old friend and former CNN colleague Jim Moret reminded me of this just the other day.
Boy, did it look like he had it all. Great family. Glamorous TV career. Who wouldn't want all that? Who wouldn't want to be Jim Moret?
But I'm telling you. No one wants what it meant to be Jim Moret a few years ago. You might've wanted what you thought it felt like to be Jim Moret. But you didn't want to be him.
How do I know? Because I and everyone else who is reading his incredibly inspiring new book now knows it couldn't have felt worse to be Jim Moret. So bad, he was thinking of ending it all.
Just as amazing as that head turner is how Jim turned his attitude, perspective, and life around. It came down to one simple question: "What would I do if this were the last day of my life?"
You can see more about Jim and his incredible journey in today's featured story.
On the flip side is Patrick Henry Hughes.
Hey, everybody! How about wishing you could be born without eyes and unable to walk. Who would wish for that?!
You just might after you see this story from ESPN's Tom Rinaldi. Through another Rinaldi classic, he shows us it would feel pretty amazing to get to be Patrick Henry Hughes for just one day. To have his zest for life and appreciation of the gifts and people in his life.
Now that, you just might want.
I first came upon this idea that no one really wants anything, they just want what they think it would feel like soon after joining CNN.
A local Phoenix newspaper wrote an article all about the rising star at CNN Sports. Y'know a "local girl makes good" kind of piece.
I remember it like it was yesterday. I read all about this young woman who got to work at an international network and travel the world covering the biggest sporting events and athletes. As soon as I finished reading, my first thought was, "I wish I could be her."
"Oh! I am HER," I had to remind myself.
"Well, I wish I could feel like I think it should feel to be her." Because truth was I didn't feel much of that. Sure, I appreciated the job and was having a good time. But, I was more concerned with everything I hadn't accomplished, everything I didn't have in my life. Come from that place, and trust me, no job feels like you would want it to feel.
So, here's to what Jim Moret figured out working through his crisis--it's about the attitude, joy, and happiness we choose to have, not the empty feeling of we mistakenly think we might want.
January 22, 2010: Wait Until You See This!
I keep coming across more amazing news related to Haiti. You'll definitely want to check out these stories which will make your heart sing:
First off, if you think you have nothing to give then you'll want to be inspired by this amazing story out of Philadelphia. Homeless men gathering a local shelter have set out to gather donations for the Haitian people. They're going door to door picking up supplies from local businesses. Talk about showing the world What's Possible! You have to see this one.
From the celebrity world, none other than American Idol's Simon Cowell is stepping up. Britain's prime minister has personally asked Sir Cranky to make an album with England's top pop stars. See how fast Simon says he can have that record produced.
Ever wonder what it would be like to get a second chance at life? Check out this story of this American man who was buried under the rubble for days. Even his wife back here in the States had given up hope. Check out their new happy beginning.
And finally, if you ever wondered about the generosity of people around the world, check out this update on the amount of money that has been raised for Haiti. We're talking big time records, folks!
January 20, 2010: More Good Stuff From Haiti
As promised, I'm keeping my eye out for heart-warming stories rising from the rubble in Haiti.
As the story goes on it shows what I already knew--that people have big hearts and open them up during times of crisis.
Want to sleep better tonight? Catch this full-circle moment: I told you yesterday how CNN's Gary Tuchman reported on orphans being allowed to leave the country without getting hung up in red tape. Now you get to see something special. Those same kids meeting their American families in Florida. Watch here.
And don't miss the Minnesota couple who has decided to donate a big chunk of their wedding budget to Haitian relief. Here's a couple who has their priorities straight.
And I heard from my friend, CNN's Jason Carroll in Haiti. He had the awesome experience of helping to find a missing man's father.
I'll keep the encouraging news coming.
If you see a story you think I should feature, please shoot me a note on Facebook or Twitter.
Thanks!
January 18, 2010: Miracles Are Happening
I told you here in this blog at the start of this month that I'm focusing this year on looking for and at miracles. I believe you see what you seek. And they are happening. Even in Haiti. Don't get me wrong, I know the devastation of this impoverished country is on a scale that most of us can't fathom. But even in that wreckage, there are wonderful things happening.
I've been keeping an eye out in the traditional media coverage for stories that report progress and hope. It might be easy to overlook them, so here are some you might want to check out:
My friend, distant cousin and CNN correspondent Gary Tuchman has a wonderful update on a group of orphans that are getting to skip red tape and head to their adoptive families here in the United States right away.
MSNBC.com is running a similar story about a young man making his way to his forever family in the Midwest.
The Washington Post has two articles worth your time. The "On Faith" column features news that, "The religious differences that sometimes separated Haitians have come crashing down."
Also, The Post has a very interesting article that shares an idea that is almost un-PC to mention. That out of this rubble might actually come Haiti's greatest chance ever. The possibility that "a corrupt and now devastated country might be transformed into a self-sustaining nation."
I know the idea of corruption has some folks frustrated about where their dollars might actually make a difference. Here are some updates on programs that I've either featured here on DarynKagan.com or friends of mine are personally vouching for:
I've told you about former Playboy Centerfold Susie Krabacher who has been doing amazing work in Haiti for years building orphanages and medical facilities. Her husband, Joe, sent me an email last night reporting that Susie and her team have arrived in Haiti. They have found the orphanages in a shambles. The staff that usually is taking care of the children and babies has all but disappeared. As they assess greatest needs, Joe says monetary donations will help most, as it would be practically impossible to ship donated supplies in at this time. They say 100% of cash donations go straight to helping the children. You can keep up more with what they are doing at HaitiChildren.com.
Are you feeling like you want to DO something, not just send money? My friend Patti Tufty Olt tells me about a group called Bright Hope that is sending in med packs. This can be a great project for churches, Sunday school classes, scout groups and homeschoolers. You can find out more at their website.
Finally, on this Martin Luther King, Jr. Holiday, my friend, Gil Tyree brings my attention to the Leon H. Sullivan Charitable Foundation. Gil writes, "This cause is near and dear to me. The late Rev/Dr. Sullivan was a noted civil rights leader. To help, all you have to do is text the word 'Summit' to 90999. $5 will go to helping the people." Sullivan was dedicated to training folks to work and encouraging economic self-empowerment. I would imagine his foundation would support similar efforts in Haiti.
So, a lot to digest today. I'll keep the encouraging news and donation opportunities coming as they come to me.
January 13, 2010: Because You Want To Help
Because I know DarynKagan.com visitors are the kind of folks who don't just want to sit around and watch the devastating news coming out of Haiti, I'm gathering some resources for you.
There are ways you can help without leaving your computer.
Here are some good organizations that will make your dollars count.
You first met Susie Krabacher here on the website back in 2007. She's the former Playboy Centerfold model who has dedicated her life to saving orphans in Haiti. I've reached out to her people to see the latest on her facilities and kids there. I'll pass it along as it comes in. Meanwhile, you can support Susie's kids here.
There's also UNICEF and Doctors Without Borders. DWB writes on their Twitter feed, "Haiti teams are trying to ensure safety & continued care of patients admitted to Trinite hospital. Pregnant women, new mothers, and newborn children evacuated from obstetrics facility due to structural damage. Additional staff will be deployed to #Haiti to reinforce and assess emerging needs from the earthquake in coming days."
CNN and CBS are also compiling lists of organizations that are on the ground helping in Haiti.
These are just some early places you can focus on, I'll pass along more as they come in.
January 13, 2010: Fessing Up. I'm Biased
So much for the sham idea that journalists aren't biased. We all come to each day and each story with a certain set of values and beliefs. It's what makes us what and who we are. Nothing to be ashamed of. Nothing to deny either.
One value bias I show up with each day is heat.
Yes, heat, hot, warm, whatever you want to call it--I like it! More than five years living in Phoenix, the summers were never too long for me. My biggest complaint about Atlanta--the summers don't last long enough. Heat is like a big hug. Cold hurts. Snow is pretty, but something that I should visit, not live in. Atlanta is the coldest place I've ever lived. Snuggie, space heaters, electric blankets, scalding showers, hot soup, tea, cocoa--I'm a huge fan of them all. I probably have a few of my favorite things on my mind to borrow from Julie Andrews because it's been pretty darn cold here in Atlanta for a couple weeks now.
Sure we usually get a little snowfall or ice storm each year. But we get to laugh it off because it's back to reasonable temps within days. Not this year. It's as if Batman villain Mr. Freeze is holding the city hostage. I don't think it's been above freezing for two weeks.
Go ahead. I hear you Yankees and Canadians snickering at this thin-blooded Magnolia. I'll take it. Along with any extra blankets you might want to send this way. I don't pretend to be anything other than I am, a heat seeker. The teapot is on the stove. The Super Spicy Chili Mac recipe should heat up the roof of my mouth if nothing else.
As for my heart? Well, here are two stories that did a fine job of warming that up this week. Not
to be missed is Steve Hartman's piece on a woman who believes she's boring. Oh my! What a miscalculation!
And for you sports fans and non-sports fans alike, here is the kind of writing that can make you weep. Sports Illustrated's Andy Staples writes a love letter and dispatch to his late mother as he covers her beloved Alabama Crimson Tide in this year's National Championship game. Whether or not you know or care anything about college football, this piece will shoot the warmest sunshine into the coldest shivering heart.
Andy knows all about bias. He was raised on it. Bias for the Crimson Tide. He shows it's a good thing. It's good to know your values and where you come from. From the sound of Andy's description of his mom, he comes from a fine place indeed.
January 11, 2010: New Year, New Look!
The team and I have been working on this months. The updated, fresh look for DarynKagan.com!
What better time to have the big reveal than this new year and new decade?
The essence stays the same--this is still your one-stop destination for inspiring news. Now, you'll simply find more content and more stories on the home page and each of our other pages, as well. So pull up a computer and hang out awhile.
As you click around, you'll find a few more new features. You can now read my Twitter feed right here on the website. Please click here to follow me.
And I've posted a new video greeting you and explaining how I made the transition from CNN to creating my own company focused on inspiring news.
You might also notice there is more advertising on the site. At a time when many websites are considering charging you for to view content, those wonderful sponsors are making it possible for me to bring you inspiring news free of charge. I don't know about you, but it makes me look at ads in an all new light.
So click around, get a feel and let me know what you think. We're talking about it on our social online community.
January 7, 2010: The Power Of Kindness Rocks Me
It happened again this morning.
I see a story, it goes straight to my heart, and makes me cry.
They are happy tears because this story shows me yet again that out of bad can come good. Out of a situation someone would've never picked to have happened to them, can come a gift greater than they can imagine.
79-year-old Elsie Clark can tell you that. She was simply trying to get home to Winnipeg, Canada from a Christmas visit to her daughter in Texas. You've had this kind of nightmare travel before--the kind where everything goes wrong. It was that much more intense for this grandma looking at spending the night in Chicago's O'Hare airport.
That is, until a man in shiny shoes stepped in.
Chicagoan Dean Germeyer wasn't having any of that. What could've been one of the worst nights of Clark's life turned out to be one grand adventure in the Windy City.
I love this story because it shows the essence of the kind of stories I love to tell and how I live my life.
It's not that bad things don't happen. Of course, they do.
Airline workers shouldn't mess up and leave a 79-year-old woman stranded in a cold big city airport. But that bad thing set up one man to commit an act of kindness. Hearts in two countries are now melting at the thought of what's possible. How one person can make a difference. How out of the bad can come something so good.
I hope you enjoy the story.
I won't mind if it makes you tear up like it did me.
And I smile wondering what other acts of kindness it will inspire in you.
January 4, 2010: Happy New Year!
I did it!
I actually remember to write 2010, instead of 2009! Although, I have to say I'm not decided if I'm calling this year, "Two thousand ten" or "Twenty Ten." Logic says "20-10." But "2,000-10" sounds better to me.
I just want to share that I'm pumped for this new year. We're looking at some exciting new projects. And we're finally ready to launch the first ever re-design of DarynKagan.com. Not to worry. Same great website. Just means we'll be able to bring you more inspiring stories all at once. Look for the big reveal next Monday.
The theme for my year is miracles. I believe I will see a lot of them this year. Since I believe we tend to see what we seek and focus on, it stands to be 12 pretty exciting months. The fun and the mystery? I don't know the form the miracles are going to take. As my friend, Lee Schnebly, of Tucson, AZ has long said, "Sure will be interesting to see how this all turns out!"
Admittedly, when I first heard that, it drove me nuts? Just sit back and see what life has in store? Not try to control everything to turn out the way --I-- think it should? That's not interesting, that's infuriating!
Ah, the gift of time. Time to see that when I let go, life tends to have a bigger plan for me than I could ever dream for myself. So bring it on!
I hope you'll check in here often. I'll share the miracles with you as they unfold. Remember--we post many new inspiring stories every single day. There's room for you to post your own inspiring stories, discussions, photos, and videos in our social online community.
December 22, 2009: Lucille Ball Reincarnated In A 3-Legged Cat
Animal lovers--I can't help but share this journey with you.
I've been sharing in recent weeks how somehow another amazing 3-legged cat has come into my life. I'm fostering Lily Pisa who showed up a couple months after the magnificent Tripod the 3-legged Wonder Cat passed away. I gave LP her formal DarynKagan.com introduction last week. You can see it here, in case you missed it.
What I must start sharing with you here in this blog space is how FUNNY this cat is. I've had amazing cats. I've had loving cats. I've never had a FUNNY cat. Yet, it seems just about every day she pulls off some incredibly funny stunt. At the risk of coming off as a new parent showing too many baby pictures, I'm just going to have to start giving updates right here.
Let's just say I know the deck is kind of stacked against me. This is one smart little kitty, who might be missing her right back leg, but she's what they call "polydactyl." That means she has an extra toe on each front paw. So what she lacks in leg, she makes up for in toes. And it means she can do things like open doors and pull off other mischief.
I've already figured out that Lily Pisa has a love affair with my laptop. You might think because it's warm. But there's something more going on here. A few weeks ago, I came home and found her lying across the key board and mouse sending hundreds of email! "Click! Click! Click! Click!"
I thought, "I'm on to you, Cat." So, when I left the room yesterday to take a phone call, I purposely closed the laptop. Score one for the smart Mama! Not so fast. When I wrapped up the call I heard the strangest sound coming from the other room. This is what I walked into:
Lily Pisa had OPENED the laptop. She was happily laying across the keyboard watching Japanese videos at full volume on a Japanese film society website. She must've liked what she saw because she had bookmarked the site and was in the process of making a donation when I walked in! Hopefully, I interceded before she committed my life savings in yen!
Just another day in the life.
I'll be sharing these moments and photos here as they develop. Something tells me there's going to be plenty of material.
Oh, I should mention Lily Pisa comes to me via Fancy Feline Rescue of The South. They would love to have more folks help foster and adopt. Last I checked, all the other kitties have 4-legs!
Do you have a furball comedian at your house, too? Please share over in our social online community.
December 21, 2009: Looking At Miracles
So, here we go into the big Christmas week.
For some people, it's the happiest time of the year.
For some, the pressure, the dashed expectations, the disappointments are too much. It can be so easy to look around and see what others have or what others are doing and feel the lump of coal in your stocking.
Me?
Honest reporting? I would say it's a good holiday season. Certainly better than I was expecting when we turned what I call the "Here come the holidays" corner at Labor Day. I pretty much delight in the blessings, love, and invitations that have shown up in this last quarter of 2009. Because I'm human, I have had moments of getting wistful and nostalgic for some Christmases past, peeking over at others' plate seeing all that THEY have, thinking how Christmases future might be different.
Then they came.
The early Christmas presents.
Two phone calls.
The first was from someone I haven't spoken to in probably over two years. Jude Stringfellow is mom to a wonderful family in Oklahoma City. A family that happens to include kids and special 2-legged dog they call Faith. I first featured Faith back in 2007. She is by far the most popular dog ever featured here on this website. She was a puppy left to die that the Stringfellows took in and taught to walk upright on her back two legs. Faith now travels the world inspiring folks, showing that it's not about the parts that are missing from you life, it's about making the most with what you have. As Jude likes to say, Faith shows her that "you don't have to be complete to be complete."
Turns out the Stringfellows recently found out that they won't be having the Christmas they thought they would have this year. This is not a family that gets knocked down easily. So, they're making other plans. I posted their story late last week. If you haven't seen it, I encourage you to watch. I know their story and perspective shifted my heart.
Turns out I'm not the only one. Now comes the second phone call. It came the day after I put Faith's update up. An old friend was calling. She has the kind of life that would be easy to peak at, thinking, "Wow, now she's has the perfect Christmas! All the parts are there." Married, two kids. Both she and her husband are gainfully employed. They live in an area where they are surrounded by a huge family.
"Thank you so much for the Faith the dog story," she said.
Friend is certainly one who can appreciate a good story, but I couldn't help but wonder why that particular story prompted her to call at this unusual hour.
Turns out, even with all the parts in place, she and her family won't be having the Christmas they were planning on. Just last week, her husband was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease. Friend shared that she had her big cry last week. This week? She was ready to hear about Faith the 2-legged dog and her family.
When the Christmas miracle they planned on wasn't coming to them, they decided to deliver a few miracles of their own. Watch Faith's story to see how the Stringfellows are doing that.
One of those Stringfellow miracles was showing my friend and me that it's not about sitting staring about the miracle you had so hoped would be delivered to your doorstep. It's about looking for the miracles you can deliver to others. That's the gift. That's the miracle. Focus on that and it's amazing what does show up at your front door.
It's not about missing pieces, after all. Even with all the pieces in place, there is no guarantee you'll have the holiday you planned on.
Turns out, this is just the gift I wanted and need for this holiday season. It feels like 2010 is going to be a very big year. What better way to go into it than with the guidance that I look at the miracles that are here and celebrate each one as they arrive.
What am I doing this Christmas? I'll be looking at miracles.
December 18, 2009: Get To Say, "I Knew Them When!"
The bank is committed to giving away a total of $5 million. They started their contest by opening up voting on Facebook. Non-profits signed up and encouraged followers to vote. Talk about an open casting call! 500,000 charities signed up. Chase has just announced the top 100 winners. Quite an accomplishment, there! Think about: beating out 499,900 other great causes. I was excited to look down the list. That's when I couldn't help but notice, "I know a lot of these folks!" I've met them by interviewing them and bringing you their stories here on this website.
Leigh Hurst created Feel Your Boobies after she was diagnosed with breast cancer in her early 30's. This national non-profit is now dedicated to encouraging women to know their bodies and become aware about breast health.
Darius Goes West are the oh-so-fun and unusual band of brothers who loaded up in an RV and headed West to give a special teen the ride of a lifetime. That one trip has now turned into the documentary that could raising big funds to find a cure for muscular dystrophy.
Songs Of Love is run by John Belzer who has made it his life's work to create original songs for children dealing with chronic and terminal illness.
The St. Bernard Project is helping families left homeless by Hurricane Katrina find affordable and sustainable housing in Louisiana. Each of the top 100 has already won $25,000.
In a few weeks, things will get even more interesting. Over the next few weeks, each will submit a proposal of what they would do if the won $1 million! Starting January 15th, voting opens up again. Five of the top 100 will receive $100,000. One is going to get the big $1 million!
So, I encourage you to check out the Chase Community Giving page on Facebook. You'll get 5 votes. Sure, it would be great if you supported the great causes you've seen here on DarynKagan.com. I also encourage you to peruse the list of the top 100 and see what speaks to your heart. It's not everyday you get to help pass out millions of dollars without reaching in your pocket. It's as simple as reaching for your computer's mouse.
December 15, 2009: Some Great Holiday Shopping Tips!
Are you stuck with your holiday shopping?
I have a couple of creative ideas for you.
A sewing machine? A wheel barrow? A carpenter's tool set?
Does all that sound kind of ordinary?
Well, here's the twist: the person on your list won't actually get the gift. Instead, someone you never met will.
A bunch of non-profits are raising funds this way.
This is how it works. You make a donation. Your loved one gets a card telling them about the gift and a child or woman in need gets a boost.
Sounds like a win-win-win to me!
I'm also thinking of the special girls of Hekima Place this time of year.
This is the amazing home for girl scholars just outside of Nairobi, Kenya.
It's where I spent last Christmas and turned out to be one of the most meaningful holidays of my life.
You can meet the girls and get a look at my trip here.
Mum Kate Fletcher can always use help and volunteers in changing the lives of these remarkable girls.
I hope all those tips help. Sure beats dealing with crowds and buying meaningless gifts at the mall!
December 14, 2009: Just A Moment To Brighten Someone's Day
I saw this on Facebook and think it's a great idea.
When doing your Christmas cards, take one and send it to this address:
Holiday Mail for Heroes P.O. Box 5456 Capitol Heights, MD 20791-5456
How simple! How wonderful. I think it took me all of 30 seconds to get out the extra envelope and address it. Pennies to show a recovering soldier that I care.
What about you? Do you have one extra holiday card you could pass along?
December 10, 2009: Why I'm So Proud Of My Sister!
The truth is all things are not equal among sisters.
When God was doling out smarts, creativity, and talent He saved the mother lode for my younger sister, Kallan. I say that with no bitterness. Just being the reporter that I am. It is what it is.
She was the kid who would walk into English class, calmly assess the course work and ponder, "So what do I need to do to get an 'A'? Okay, yawn." Me? I did well in school but always had to work my you know what off to pull good grades.
She can cook without following a recipe. She has our mother's gift for design. And you know how they say, "You'll never find a job sitting on the couch?" I have personally witnessed my little sister do just this. Once, while in job search mode, Kallan took some time off satisfied she had done what she needed to and was going to treat herself to a day zoning out on the couch. No sooner did she plop than the phone rang. It was a top studio wanting to hire her. A studio, she hadn't even applied to, by the way. Somehow, her resume "found" its way to this human resource department. Amazing!
Oh, I should explain that my sister is a children's animation producer. That's where the good news comes in for all of us. She has spent the better part of 2009 using her many talents to create a new holiday classic. The animated version of "Yes, Virginia, There Is A Santa Claus" debuts tomorrow on CBS (8pm ET.) It's without a doubt her finest work yet. Here's a peek:
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The animation is gorgeous, special and like nothing I've seen before. And if you're looking for a holiday story that has some substance and a wonderful message about believing, than this one is for you.
There are also some hidden surprises. Like one of the young voice actors is actually a girl getting to live out her Make-A-Wish dream. You can see that story here..
So please, gather the family around the television and set those DVR's. You won't be disappointed in this wonderful program my little sissy (as I call her) has created for you!
December 1, 2009: Your Final Glimpse
So many of the stories here at DarynKagan.com touch people's hearts. Then, every once in awhile, one comes along and sticks in their minds, as well.
That's the case with Jake Olson's story. I posted it yesterday. Jake is a 12-year-old boy who found out he would lose his one remaining eye to cancer. Doesn't seem fair, does it? Beat cancer 8-times only to find out to live, Jake would have to give up his sight. He could've sat around feeling sorry for himself. Only he couldn't. Because had a big job with this final month of sight. His parents asked him what were the final things he wanted to see and experience with vision. To what Jake picked and how that dream come true, make sure you watch Jake's story.
Meanwhile, that has folks all over the world talking. What would be your wish if you knew you were about to lose your vision? What would be the final sights you'd want to see? We're talking about it over in our social online community.
November 30, 2009: Stuffed
Yep. I'm stuffed. With good food and good memories from Thanksgiving. Some of the great moments I will remember for a long time:
--Giggle sessions with my sister. There's something about growing up with siblings that link your funny bones forever. I laugh often with friends, but there's nothing like the tear inducing all-out silliness that happens when I am in the presence of my brother and sister.
--The sweet look of horror on my 9-year-old nephew's face. We were all gathered for Thanksgiving Dinner up at Uncle Leonard's house. Different branches of Jaffes, Kagans, and our family friends the Ferraros. It was the first time the Ferraros' 2 1/2 year-old granddaughter, Parker, joined us. Boy, did she ever take a liking to 9-year-old Joe. She followed him around everywhere. At first, this was quite the ego boost for Joe-Joe. Since he's the younger brother, it's not often he gets to be the big kid, the one who's looked up to. Joe catered to Parker's desire to play puppets with little straw scarecrow figurines they pulled out of the floral centerpieces. He pretended he didn't see where she hid when she wanted to play Hide N'Seek. Somewhere in there is where IT must've happened. Joe came up to me with cheeks redder than a pomegranate looking absolutely horrified and bewildered.
"Aunt Daryn!" he said, "Parker just told me to lean over so she could tell me a secret," he said confusion laced through his voice. "Well, what did she say?" I asked. "She told me she loved me!" he gasped. "What did you say back?" I asked, trying not to giggle. "I told her, 'You barely know me!'" he exclaimed.
And there it was. The Look. Yeah, y'know, that look men get when they are utterly confounded by us women and our sometimes unexplainable emotions. Being as I live in hope, I wanted to tell Joe that he was only 9. Parker only 2 1/2. Surely, women will be easier to understand as he gets older. However, Aunt Daryn didn't want to lie. Not on Thanksgiving. My next best option. When all else fails. Dish up the pumpkin pie. Extra whip cream.
As for the real meaning of the day, long after leftovers are gone and extra pounds sweated off, I will be thinking about a remarkable story done by ESPN's Shelley Smith. You need a refresher course in gratitude, make sure you watch this story about one special boy who shows us how to carry on after losing a precious gift so many of us take for granted.
Here's hoping your holiday left you with some precious, lasting memories, as well. Feel like sharing? Just click over to our social online community.
November 16, 2009: Why I Love My Dog
I look at this quick photo I snapped yesterday with my iPhone and think, "How can I not smile?"
She is Darla Louise, my quirky, 9 1/2 year old pup taking in the beauty of a mid-Fall afternoon.
I have no idea if anyone else sees the beauty I do when I look at my own dog. I don't think I really care. I'm just so thankful and delighted for the many moments of joy she brings to my life each day.
How does she know not to get out of her doggy bed each morning until I ask, "Do you want to go for a walk?" There is no barking or whining if she's ready to get up and att'em before me. Sure, there might be some intentional rolling over with a doggie version of clearing her throat. A kind of, "Kh-kh-kha-hum, excuse me," kind of sound. But it's just a suggestion that I might want to get the day started.
I love how she's my social "wing man" in the neighborhood. Have you ever noticed that walking witha dog instantly makes you a friendly person that neighbors can stop and talk to? Who would do that if you were just out walking by yourself? I've met so many great people in the 'hood because of Darla. Admittedly, with many of them, I only know their dog's name and forget theirs. Does that ever happen to you? You run into a fellow dog parent in the market and the best you can say is, "Ohhh...it's Griffey's mom!" or "Hey, Sheldon's dad!"
I love that Darla has one specific lawn in the neighborhood that she loves roll on. I have to admire a woman who knows what she wants and Darla wants the lawn around the block and to the right. There are other houses that appear to me to have the exact same kind of grass, but none will do. Thank goodness the new neighbors from Florida who just moved into that house are cool and love that Darla loves their lawn. Bet the realtor didn't tell them the new abode came complete with a rolling dog outside their front door.
To watch Darla roll on that grass with all her might is to witness pure bliss, a sight Darla treats me to with each midday walk. Thank you, sweet girl, for showing me daily what pure happiness and contentment looks like.
I'm a little extra in love my dog today as I have to take up to a vet specialist for some tests. To me, she looks totally fine, but our regular vet has been seeing some things in her blood work that has him concerned. So, please keep Darla Louise in your thoughts today. (And her mom, too!)
Meanwhile, please share with my why YOU love your dog. We're talking about that over in our social online community.
November 11, 2009: Here's To The Veterans!
Here's to all the men and women who have sacrificed serving America. I appreciate your service and all that you've done to make so much possible in this great country.
About 18 months ago I was able to get an even deeper understanding and appreciation for some of our most recent veterans. The folks at Sun Valley Adaptive Sports invited me for a week of skiing with a special group of veterans. You'll see more about that incredible experience in today's featured story.
It was wonderful to be able to spend more than just a couple hours or a half-day with these remarkable men. That's how it would've been in my old life as a CNN anchor. Get in, shoot story, get out. Nothing against CNN. That system suits what they do. But with what I do now, I can say, "Have laptop; will travel!" and set my own schedule. What a treat.
The time with these men moved me to share my thoughts on camera. Right after that trip, I created what I called my first "blogideo," my blog + video.
Here's a look at that.
November 2, 2009: Riding The Post-Halloween Candy Buzz
Here, in no particular order, are my Halloween confessions:
-Few things taste as good as that first piece of Halloween candy I pop into my mouth when I open the bag a few days before the big day. The joy each next piece brings quickly diminishes. So why am I still grazing on an array of candy buffet more than 24 hours after the last trick or treaters rang the doorbell?
-My friend's husband, Darren, (we call him, "BoyDarren") assures me that because of "fun" size, the line up of Hershey bar, Reese's cup, Whoppers, Kit Kat bar and Dots is actually the equivalent of a single serving. He's a really smart lawyer in Silicon Valley so I'm going with his judgement. Why would he lie?
-Seeing trick or treaters at my door makes me tear up. Don't know what that's about. I just get such a kick out of getting to share their big night. Even the little Freddie Kruger made me a little misty.
-This year the kids told me I had especially good candy. It's highly likely they saw me as an easy mark and just said that so that they could take more. That's just fine by me. As Bill Withers sang, Oh you just keep on using me until you use me up Until you use me up.
-I found out that Halloween candy is still a valued currency the day after. Two of my favorite neighborhood goblins came by Sunday to help me plant bulbs through out the yard. They even helped dig into the compost after I explained that it was a big pile of cow poop. Couldn't phase these junior gardeners. I told them they could help themselves to a piece of candy by the door once we were done. They asked for two each instead. Who knew 7-year-olds could drive such a hard bargain? I caved. I'm sure their mothers are thrilled. Just what they need--more candy.
-DarlaDog is still in the Halloween afterglow, licking crumbs off the street, refusing to give up her Jack-o-lantern regalia. Whatever makes you happy, sweet girl. Whatever makes you happy.
October 30, 2009: An Idea So Great-It's Scary!
Here's wishing you and all your goblins a fabulous Halloween weekend!
And I offer up this quick reminder: Here's a great idea for what you can do with your kids' Halloween candy. Well, at least some of it. Don't forget to snag a share for your own secret stash. :)
October 27, 2009: Midweek Random Musings
Some thoughts traveling through my brain as we move through the middle part of the week. Thoughts that aren't big enough for their own blog post, perhaps interesting only to me, but somehow I feel compelled to share with you.
-I think Ivanka Trump made for a lovely bride Sunday. She married Jared Kushner at an intimate gathering for 500 of their closest friends and family. Her Vera Wang gown was apparently inspired by Grace Kelly. And in fact, it did have a timeless, classy look. You can check it out for yourself. Her dress was classy, sweet, age appropriate. Not gawdy in the least and very different from what you see most brides wearing today. Maybe I'm veering into old fogeyhood, but so much of what I see brides try on on "Say Yes To The Dress!" looks like it came fromFrederick's of Hollywood instead of a bridal salon. But Ivanka gets A+.
-Speaking of good grades, you'll want to check out this piece in the New York Times about Myron Rolle. He's the tremendous young man who has put off entering the NFL draft by a year so that he can experience his Rhodes Scholarship. Now that classes are underway at Oxford, the Times gives you a front row seat to his exciting and inspiring year.
-Here's an early heads up to keep an eye out for the best TV holiday special of the year. In December, Macy's will present an animated version of "Yes,Virgina. There Is A Santa Claus." I've been lucky enough to see an advance clip and I promise you the production, voices, animation are all magical. Of course, I might be biased, as the producer is my little sister, Kallan. I'll give you more info as the air date gets closer.
-Friends and family are about to demand a DNA test for this previously self-avowed non-domestic diva. In the last year, I've learned to cook, grow my own vegetables and now about to tackle canning. I'm looking to make some good old fashioned pepper jelly with peppers straight from the garden. The jelly part looks easy enough. The canning? Apparently, there's a whole process thang you need to do so you don't kill friends and family with botulism. Who knew? I'll report back.
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October 19, 2009: Magnificent Animals
I have a thing for animals. Anyone who knows me, knows that.
I really have a thing for magnificent animals. I know it when I see it. And I saw it the first moment I saw Baxter the therapy dog.
If you need a good cry or just want to remember what it feels like to have someone special in your life, make sure you watch today's story..
Baxter was a 19-year-old dog who spent his final years and days bringing comfort and love those in their final days at a hospice in San Diego.
This story brings up a lot of feelings for me. As I watched Baxter's video, I couldn't help but think of my own magnificent Tripod, the 3-legged wonder cat who passed away July 31st, also at the age of 19. I think I cried tearsfor Baxter last night that I wasn't able to cry for Tripod this summer. Grief does that, I find. Pops up in places that it can.
What 'Pod and Baxter both show me is that the end of life isn't something to run away from. It's actually just as magnificent as all the days that come before. In some ways, even more, if you choose to see it that way. Both Baxter and Tripod did and those of us that got to witness their magnificence first hand are all the richer for it.
I received word from Baxter's human, Melissa, that he passed away peacefully last Friday. I send love, hugs, and understanding to her and her husband, Dennis. Chances are they'll be blown away how one creature weighing 38 lbs could take up so much space in their home and hearts. It's not a space that's easily filled. I know that only too well.
I would share with them that I've received my most comfort by the idea that I believe each of us shows up here with a different contract. Tripod and Baxter didn't sign up to be here 70+ years. That was never the plan. When I look at all the good each one of them did in their time here on Earth, I realize they did more than their fair share. And that's how I'm able to let go. Simply out of gratitude for sharing a magnificent life.
Do you need or want to share a story about your magnificent animal? Please do so over in our social online community.
October 16, 2009: Dentists Become Heroes For Heroes
Here's a new twist on a profession that often doesn't get a lot of love: Dentists are becoming heroes!
It's a great idea! Bring your kid's extra trick or treat stash to a local participating dentist. They will buy it back for $1 per pound. The dentist then sends the candy to Operation Gratitude who will send it on to US troops serving overseas.
Talk about win-win-win-win.
Your kid's teeth get a break. Your child also gets a little cash where they can go get a treat that won't rot their teeth. The troops get something sweet that shows they are appreciated and they get a tool to help them sweeten relations with when approaching folks in places like Iraq and Afghanistan.
And it's all because the dentists are reaching into their own pockets to buy back the candy.
Carolyn Blashek from Operation Gratitude tells me that last year they received 21 TONS of candy from dentists around the country. This year, they're expecting 50 tons!
If you want to see my story about the program, click here.
And if you want to find a local dentist who's participating in your area, click here.
What about you? Do you have any other ideas on how we can add an inspirational twist to Halloween? Please share over in our social online community.
October 14, 2009: Is It Possible To Like Him Even More?
Is it possible to like Captain Chesley Sullenberger even more?
It appears so.
He's the oh-so-brave pilot who calmly took control last January when a flock of birds flew into US Airways Flight 1549.
He's out with his life story as of today. It's called Highest Duty: My Search for What Really Matters. He shares how his life led up to that fateful moment and the crazy, unexpected life of fame that has now come to him and his family.
Sully and his wife Lorrie have given a very nice interview to USA Today where they talk about the effect this has all had on their family.
It sounds like it's not all been easy, but it also sounds like they get it. They get why people want to look at Capt. Sully and see hope.
"Something about this event was life-affirming, he says. "It reminded people of the potential for good that exists in all of us. That's why I wrote this book. I want people to see I'm just an ordinary guy who, having cultivated certain virtues, was able to perform an extraordinary act. I want people to see that inthemselves."
That paragraph kind of took my breath away. One, because he seems to be talking about the kind of people I profile every day here on DarynKagan.com.
But also, because in a moment when he could make it all about him, he wants to, instead, help us all see that we have our own Sully moment inside of us.
Sharing his moment of glory and inspiring that spark of hope that maybe in our darkest moment each one of us could also rise to the occasion.
I guess you don't know until it's your turn. I look at the challenges in my own life and sometimes feel like I've soared right up their with the Sullys of the world, and some where I still wait and pray to get my wings up off the ground.
So, the answer to the question is yes. It is possible to like Sully even more than I thought possible before. Thank you to him for saving all those lives that January day and thank you even more for sparking the many lives of all the people who will read his book.
October 12, 2009: One Person's Goof Is Another's Feast Fit For Kings
Who hasn't messed up at work?
We all have. So I know you will relate the horror being felt by one employee of a Bay Area catering firm.
The nice thing is, this time, there's a happy twist of an ending.
I loved reading this story in the San Franciso Chronicle.
The best golfers in the world gathered at Harding Park in San Francisco over the last few days. Yeah, the likes of Tiger Woods and Phil Mickelson. They were there to represent the United States in the Presidents Cup, a competition that pits America's best golfers against an international team.
When golf royalty shows up, of course you would expect the finest accommodations including the best food.
No wonder the catering firm was feeling pretty pleased with itself when delicious smells came wafting tournament tents last Wednesday.
Only, according to the Chronicle, city event coordinator Martha Cohen knew something was wrong.
"What's that?" she asked.
"Lunch," replied the proud caterer.
"Uhhh, the tournament doesn't begin until tomorrow," Cohen said.
Yeah, someone at the caterer got the event date wrong by one day!
Can't you feel your stomach drop?
Speaking of stomachs there was some quick thinking with this goof.
All 700 meals ended up at the St. Anthony soup kitchen!
The offerings that day? Parmesan crusted cod with linguini, chicken tocino with a white wine tomato chive sauce, carved mesquite-smoked beef brisket, parsley buttered potatoes, Caesar salad and shrimp pasta salad.
I love it!
I also love that the Americans rocked. You can read more about the surprise buffet here. And go here to see how great the Americans did.
Win-Win!
October 8, 2009: $50,000 For Your Fave Cause!
Here's a great tip--
How about $50,000 to give to your favorite cause?
That's what they are offering over at the Case Foundation.
Looks like it is a competition and lesson in social media all rolled into one. You simply go here and register your favorite cause and win cash awards. The money will go to the causes that inspire the most people to donate to their cause, regardless of the dollar amount. They're giving out daily and overall awards. The idea is to encourage people to leverage their personal networks and online social media.
The really cool thing is that the Giving Challenge is not focused on how much money you can raise, but on how successful you are at building collective action and inspiring members to donate to your cause. To succeed, the goal is to get as many unique daily donations as possible (minimum of $10), to your cause each day.
Good luck!
October 2, 2009: You Know You Have Too Many Facebook Friends When.....
Oh, here's a funny one that happened today!
You know you have too many Facebook friends when you get an email from a Larry King Live guest booker asking you to come on Larry's show tonight to talk about one of your "friends."
True story.
My brush with fame today.
Here's the email:
We wanted to reach out as I saw on Joe Halderman's facebook page that you two are FB friends. Wondering if you know him and if you would be willing to come on Larry King Live tonight to talk about the David Letterman story?
At first I was, "Huh? Joe Halderman? Who's that? The David Letterman story?"
A couple clicks around the internet took me from "Huh?" to "Ohhhhhhh...."
Joe Halderman is the CBS news producer now accused of trying to extort $2 million from Letterman.
Next sentence in the conversation in my head, "I'm friends with him?"
Clicked over to my Facebook page, did a search, and what do you know? Turns out I am "friends" with him. Hard to keep up when you have 2,739 friends.
This little episode totally reinforced a feeling I got earlier this week. This Facebook "friend" thing has gotten totally out of hand. It started as a simple marketing tool. I started out confirming just about anyone who asked. The growing list was a marketing tool to spread the word about DarynKagan.com. But lately, it's just been feeling weird. Too much co-mingling between the public and private.
So earlier this week, I started a FAN page. That's going well. That's now where I'msending all the requests from "friends" I really don't know. I'm going to have many of the same features and updates that are on my personal page, I just feel better about the separation.
Next step will be weeding through my 2,739 "friends" and asking folks I really don't know to mosey on over to the fan page instead. Perhaps, people like Joe Halderman, although he admittedly might be too preoccupied with some legal matters to take the time to make the switch.
So, the other funny thing is that I called that Larry King Live guest booker to share a good laugh.
"You're breaking news," I told her. "I had no idea I was 'friends' with Joe Halderman. He's just one of 2,739 people I confirmed."
She completely understood, yet was still sounded somewhat disappointed. "OK. I was just thinking that, y'know, you're such a positive person, you could come on the show tonight and give a positive perspective on what your friend faces."
"A positive take on allegedly trying to extort millions from one of the most famous men in America? I'm good, but I think that ones a bit out of my reach. Sorry, I can't help you."
So, there you have it. My brush with fame. My almost invite to be on Larry King tonight. And my surefire sign from the Universe, it's time to clean up my Facebook page.
As you read this, you can probably figure out that no, I won't confirm you if you now try to "friend" me on Facebook, but I sure would be delighted if you joined my new Fan page!
October 1, 2009: No Surprise—Billy's A Hero
Here's no surprise to me.
One very cool, inspiring young woman thinks Bill Hemmer's a hero.
Yeah, that Bill Hemmer. You probably know him as the hunky and oh-so-capable news anchor on Fox News.
Laura Tellado knows him as a hero. Laura is a young woman with spina bifida who is writing a very creative and inspiring blog called Holdin' Out for a Hero. She's chronicling her journey of reaching out to various celebrities. She's not getting a lot of response from many.
Bill has been different.
Laura picked getting to meet Bill as her big wish back when she was 16 years old. Not only did he come through, but also he's stayed in touch with Laura through the years encouraging her and celebrating her accomplishments and victories. You can read a first hand account of Bill's kindness at Laura's blog.
What you read will please you; it might even surprise you that a big time news anchor would take the time to be so kind.
It doesn't surprise me a bit. See, to Laura he's a hero. To the world, he's Bill Hemmer, FOX News. To me, he's just Billy.
Rick Kaplan, who is now Katie Couric's executive producer was running CNN back in 1997 when he paired us up. "I'm putting you with Hemmer," Rick informed me as he plucked me from the sports department and made me CNN's newest news anchor.
Boy, did I ever luck out in that arranged TV marriage! See, it's a dicey thing, those TV anchor match ups. You're usually dealing with huge egos, insecure personalities, and potential back-stabbers. On top of that, just by the very nature of the job you are physically seated next to this person for more hours in the day than one sees a spouse or a child.
This simply wasn't a problem with Bill and me. We had bond, friendship and chemistry.
Here's a good little story. It was early on in our pairing. I was new to the news anchoring thing. Kosovo and the war in the Balkans was big news. It was my turn to read a story and I made a huge pronunciation gaffe.
"Today in Kuh-saah'-vo," I said and went onto finish the story. No sooner were we in a commercial break than did Rick Kaplan, himself, come charging into the studio. All 6'12" of him.
"You totally screwed that up!" he boomed. "It's Koh-soh-voh, not 'Kuh-sah-vo! This is CNN and if you want to be a news anchor here, then you need to know how to pronounce that as well as you can 'Philadelphia'" he roared as he charged out of the studio.
Today, I can laugh at the scene, as Rick is also a friend, and of course, he was absolutely right. But at that moment? I felt about 2" tall.
It was dead quiet in the studio until Billy, turned to me and offered, "Well, look at the bright side."
"The bright side?" I asked unbelieving. "How can there be a bright side? I just made a fool of myself on international television and got chewed out by Kaplan!"
"Well," Billy countered, "Now, you'll never forget how to say Kosovo!"
Boy, was he right about that one. You could wake me out of dead sleep tonight and I would get that one out right!
In the interest of full disclosure, I can tell you that because we spent so much time together, Bily and I could bicker like the best of brothers and sisters. We could get on each other's nerves. But, like the little story I just shared shows, there never ever was a question that we had each other's back. That's insurance you can't put a price tag on.
It also probably led to the chemistry that made people ask, "Are you guys dating?" We would even get inquiries from White House staffers with inquiring minds. Oh, that one still makes us laugh to this day. It really would be like dating your sibling. Not a great idea for romance, but perfect for family. And just like all the Hemmers hailing from Cincinnati, family comes first for Billy. We're bonded for life.
Years pass by. CNN moved Bill up to New York and eventually let him slip away to Fox News. (Talk about steal of the century!)
You know what I'm doing, hanging out here inspiring the world. These days, he drops in on my life. I drop in on his. That means lunch if we're in the same city. Or cheerleading like when he introduced me at one of my book signings earlier this year. I watch any co-anchors he's been with since me with a very protective eye. "She better be good to you, Billy!" I'll warn in an email.
All this to say, I'm not surprised that Billy is someone's hero. I wanted to make sure you heard about it and read Laura's blog.
There are some good guys in the crazy, ambitious, narcissistic world of TV news and you should know that Bill Hemmer is one of them.
Oh, by the way—you can follow him on Twitter here.
September 29, 2009: NFL Stars Wear Pink Shoes!
Here's a hot fashion and sports tip for you: Some of the top NFL stars will be wearing pink shoes this weekend!
Yeah, pink shoes, as in cleats.
Finally, the biggest news about quarterback Brett Favre won't be the new purple Vikings' jersey he's wearing this season. It'll be the pink cleats on his feet.
Arizona wide receiver Larry Fitzgerald has some of the quickest feet in the game. The Cardinals have a bye this week, but next time those fleet Fitzgerald feet take to the field, they will be sporting pink cleats, as well.
Perhaps you thought the only connection between the NFL and breasts were the push up bras worn by jiggly Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders?
No, real men and real football players care about one of the top health issues facing American women today. It's touched many of them personally. Brett Favre's wife, Deanna, is a breast cancer survivor. Fitzgerald's mom, Carol, was being treated for the disease when she died in 2003.
The pink twinkle toes are just the beginning. Throughout October, NFL games will also feature coaches and referees wearing pink game apparel, as well as on-field pink ribbon stencils and special K-balls and pink coins. All the items will be auctioned off at NFL.com. Proceeds will benefit the American Cancer Society and team charities.
Talk about Fantasy football! Thank you to the NFL and all the players and personnel who are thinking pink and taking on that nasty opponent of breast cancer.
Thanks to Brian McCarthy, from the NFL's PR office, who tipped me off on Twitter. You can follow Brian on Twitter here. You can follow me here.
September 28, 2009: Happy Birthday, Darius!
One of the coolest young men I've met while creating this website had a rite of passage this weekend. Darius Weems turned 20.
"What's the big deal?" you ask. "Thousands of young men turn 20 all the time!"
Aha, but thousands don't turn 20 while surviving a disease that doctors were sure would kill them in their early teens.
Darius has Duchene's muscular dystrophy.
As big as that is, it's the not the biggest thing about him. No, that would be the fact that Darius is the star of one of the best documentaries I've ever seen.
I've been telling you about Darius and the film "Darius Goes West" for over a year now. How Darius had never left his hometown of Athens, GA until 11 of his buddies decided it was time for him to see the world.
That road trip is the subject of the documentary. It will make you laugh, cry, and cheer all at the same time.
As fun as it's been to get to know Darius and his buddies, it's been just as great to see first time film maker Logan Smalley and his crew get their movie made and their cause out there.
A year and a half after I told you about this amazing young man, it's nice to see the traditional media catching up and spreading the word, as well. Over the last couple of days, the guys have been featured on CBS and CNN. And just this weekend, MTVU gave Darius Goes West it's national broadcast debut.
Don't worry if you missed it. You can get your own copy of the movie here.
Darius—Congratulations! Happy Birthday! And please give us all a little warning before the big 21 comes around. I don't want to be in your way if you're celebrating and cruising around in that fancy ride of yours!
September 25, 2009: Flood Of Heroes!
There's a good chance you've heard about the heavy flood waters we've had here in Atlanta this week. When 15+ inches comes down over a couple days, there's just nowhere for all that water to go.
Most of the news coverage has been about people instantly flooded out of their homes. 8 people even lost their lives. It is serious stuff. We're very lucky around my house. Water came up, but not as far as the house. We're good to go.
I just wanted to take this blog space today to tell you what you might not have heard.
See, the flood waters aren't the only thing rising up around here.
So are local heroes.
All sorts of folks are using Twitter and Facebook to connect those who want to help with those who need help.
One local pastor set up a website, HopeATL.com that is doing that in a very efficient way.
The local NBC station, WXIA-TV, has done a story on the great efforts going on in this great city to help those in need.
It just goes to show what I've said for a long time. It's not that bad and challenging things don't happen in this world. Of course, they do. But I've also come to know that even in the most challenging of times, ordinary people step up to do extraordinary things.
That's what I focus on and celebrate here at DarynKagan.com. And that's what's happening right here in Atlanta! It feels like sunshine even before the actual sun comes out from behind all those rain clouds.
September 23, 2009: Now, That's One Fun Phone Call!
Who says no good deed goes unpunished?
24 special people recently received the phone call of their lives. They picked up the phone to get the news that someone really appreciates the work they are doing with their lives. Appreciates it so much, in fact, that they have been named a MacArthur Fellow.
That means they'll be receiving a "Genius Grant." Nice name, yes? How about the sound of this? Each fellow will receive $500,000 over the next five years. No strings attached! Oh, and by the way--they have no idea who nominated them!
Who deserves that kind of honor? The winners range in age from 32-69. According to the foundation, they include an infectious disease physician, an ornithologist, a painter, a photojournalist, a bridge engineer, a climate scientist, an economist, a papermaker, a mental health lawyer, and a poet. All were selected for their creativity, originality, and potential to make important contributions in the future.
Some of my favorites include Jerry Mitchell who is an investigative reporter in Jackson, Mississippi. Dr. Mary Tinetti is doing fascinating work looking at the effect of falling and the health of older people. Richard Prum's world is all about the science of birds.
If you just feel like hanging out with a bunch of geniuses, you can meet all 24 of them here.
Isn't that a great idea? I thought it would be fun to start our own unofficial genius roll going. Anyone you think the world needs to know about? Who do you think is doing genius work? Please share over in our social online community.
September 17, 2009: However Tall The Mountain
Awista Ayub has a message for everyone who has a dream of making the world a better place.
Do it.
That's right. Do it.
Is it going to be hard? You bet.
Will people tell you that you're nuts? Whoa, the stories Awista could tell you! Imagine telling your dad that you want to step away from your Chemistry degree to teach girls sports. Yeah, that one didn't go over so well at first.
But after 9/11, this young woman, born in Afghanistan, raised here in the US, knew she had to do something.
She did something really smart. She followed her heart. Because she had the opportunity to grow up here, she had the chance to learn, participate and fall in love with sports.
She told me, "The lessons that I learned on the field, on the playing court were lessons that I learned and helped me in the classroom and the real world."
That's what she wanted to pass along to girls back in her native country, picking soccer as the sport she wanted to support.
Sounds sweet, but what about the fact that Awista was only 23, fresh out of college, had no non-profit experience, even described herself as naïve? The list could go on and on.
Basically, the column of reasons why this was a good idea wasn't that long. Awista could've done what so many of us do when we have an idea to make the world a better place. She could've listened to that tape in our head. "I can't because.." No doubt you've heard it? "I can't because I don't know how. I can't because I don't have money. I can't because I don't have connections." The tape can go on and on.
Here's the difference between Awista and most folks. She had an old Afghan proverb in her back pocket. It goes, "However tall the mountain, there's always a road."
Did Awista find that road? Just check out today's story to find out.
Meanwhile, if you're looking for some inspiration to go for your crazy dream to change the world, you'll want to get Awista's book. It's fresh off the presses. Guess what it's called? However Tall The Mountain: A Dream, Eight Girls, & A Journey Home.
Thanks, Awista, for showing us a way and giving us a whole other kind of headline out of Afghanistan than we're seeing day after day in the traditional media.
September 16, 2009: Making Yellow Taxi Out Of Lemons
Jay Field is a man with drive.
He's also a man who now drives….a lot.
It's how he's supporting his family.
I bet there are a lot of you who can relate to Jay's story. He was lucky enough to find his dream job—reporting news for public radio stations in San Francisco and Chicago.
Wouldn't it be nice if the story ended there? Well, no. Because, one, it doesn't. And two, I personally think it gets even better.
See, like millions of Americans, Jay was laid off as the economy beganto tank. And like millions of Americans he went looking for that new job. Turns out it was harder than he thought. With a wife and two kids, he figured he had to go do something. So, Jay is now driving a taxi.
Why do I love his story? Jay realized he might not be getting paid to tell stories right now, but he still has stories to tell. So, he's started a blog called Recession Taxi.
He shares great entries like how his little boy could care less what Daddy's job was when he was a reporter, but now that drives a cab? Whoa! Doesn't get any cooler than that! Daddy's might as well be an astronaut!
I know I'll be keeping up with Jay and the taxi. I appreciate a man who can take his lumps and disappointments and still gather his family and say, "We're going to do what we have to do." There are few things more attractive to me than that.
And thanks to Jay for sharing his little boy's fresh perspective. One man's lump is another little man's lottery grand prize.
Good luck, Jay! Don't take this the wrong way, but I hope that next radio job doesn't come along too soon. I want some more time to ride along in your taxi.
You want to screw your head on for a smile and attitude adjustment? Check out Jay's blog here.
September 11, 2009: Inside Out Stories
Today is the perfect opportunity to explain how and what I do.
"How can you possibly make a case for talking about good things happening in the world when there is so much tragedy and bad news?" my critics cry.
Look, you don't have to point out to me that bad things happen in the world. Work in TV news for a long time and you get that. I can and do what I do because of amazing people like the Fazio family.
When I was on the air on 9/11 covering the destruction of the World Trade Center for CNN, Ronald Fazio, Sr. was living his final moments inside those burning buildings.
His grown kids tell me that their dad was last seen holding the door open for other people to get out to safety, an opportunity that escaped him as he was saving other lives.
The Fazios smile as they share the last vision of their dad. They weren't surprised at all. That was there dad—always holding the door open to help out someone else.
So, no, I'm not going to tell the Fazios that bad things don't happen in the world. I don't have to. One, they've lived it. But even bigger, they have a more important story to tell.
See, the Fazios are living what I call and "inside out" story, where someone takes an event they would've never picked to happen to them, turned it inside out and chosen to transform their lives and the world around them.
They've done it with their Hold The Door For Others Foundation. The baton has been passed from father to children, who are now in the business of helping out others.
It's the kind of story I came to love in my years at CNN. No matter how dark and difficult the situation, there are always everyday people who rise up to amazing and inspiring things.
People like the Fazios continue to teach me that it's not what happens to you, it's what you choose to do with it. That's where the power comes in.
By the way, you can find another great story like this with Cathy Carilli. Her husband, Thomas Stinton also died in the Towers on 9/11. She's turned her grief inside out by creating Tower of Hope. If you want to celebrate America, heroes, and animals, then this is the story for you.
So, there you have it. That's how and why I do what I do. That's why I shine the light on the positive. Because it's out there, it's happening and it's just as important to talk about and celebrate as the things we would never pick to happen to us and our loved ones.
What about you? Why do you like to see and share positive news? Please let me know over in our social online community.
September 8, 2009: Happy New Year!
I swear whoever created our calendar thousands of years ago got it wrong. This is the start of the new year. So much more than January 1st. End of summer playtime, kids back in school. Whether or not you have kids, this is the time of year when things get revved up.
I'm starting our new year together by sharing some random notes that have been piling up in my yellow legal pad:
Best Facebook Posting I Saw This Week: "Fear is the result of your brain imagining danger; Faith is the result of your brain imagining the possibilities."
Most Intriguing Movie Trailer I Saw This Week: Love Happens. Nothing deep here, just looks like a good chick flick is on the way. And I love the title. Ties into the Facebook posting, don't you think, having faith that Love Happens? And I'm always rooting for Jennifer Anniston to get a win. Here's a peek.
Best Example The Love Comes In All Sorts Of Packages: I'm loving being a Big Sister. I've already been a big sister biologically for a big chunk of my life. Since the middle of summer, I've been a Big Sister, as in Big Brothers/Big Sisters Of America. I have a delightful 4th grader. RF is keeping a smile on my face and inspiring all sorts of adventures. Saturday we went for golf lessons at the historic College Park Golf Course in Atlanta. It was a lot of fun to watch us both progress on our swing. Then, over subway sandwiches she shared that she's designed her dream house. It will be all pink and purple. Excellent. Can't wait to come visit!
Best Dancing In The Shower Song With The Worst Title: What? Come on. Everyone talks about singing in the shower, but what about dancing? Am I the only one? Sometimes it's a dance party, sometimes part of the fully choreographed act…singing AND dancing. If this includes you, you have to check out "Catch My Disease" by Ben Lee. I clarified that it was a terrible title. It's actually a very happy, upbeat tune with the perfect zing. Let the dancing begin, but be careful of slippery floors!
The smile I'm walking around with today can be traceddirectly back to the week I just spent at the beach. As I go about the chores of re-entry I get happy again each time I spy stowaway sand in the far reaches of my suitcase or a tan line peeking out of my T Shirt.
Any of you beach lovers out there know exactly what I'm talking about. Don't you just love to sit at the shore and watch wave after wave after wave? It gave me some time this past week to clear some stale thoughts and let new ones wash in. In fact, it's the waves themselves, that have me thinking.
Countless times I've sat at a beach in awe of the beauty, power, and magnificence of the waves that I see pound ashore. What amazing force of nature! Of course, there is the science of the moon and the tides that you could read in a bunch of science books. But the physics don't begin to explain or describe the magnificence and fleeting beauty of each individual wave.
I mean think about it. All that work and in a matter of seconds, that perfect wave is gone forever. At least during the day you can sit on the beach and appreciate a wave from the first swell until the final splash and retreat back into the ocean.
This last week, we were lucky enough to stay in a home right on the beach. That's how it was thenighttime waves that got my attention. The dark late August sky meant I couldn't actually see the waves from the bedroom balcony, but they were the last thing I heard each night. As I drifted off to sleep, I would picture each of those nighttime waves.
"Surely, they must be as magnificent, beautiful, and special as the waves that are seen and appreciated in the daytime," I thought to myself. Absolutely, they are just as much their own special, fleeting amazing creation. They are just as important to the ocean, tides and sea life as the daytime waves, yet, no one ever sees them. All that magnificence happens in the dark.
I kept thinking about those night time waves during one of my cherished long walks during the day. Nighttime waves are not alone. There are countless people just like them. In fact, I think we all have them in our lives. I know I do. People who don't get the spotlight, the public accolades, the big hoorays for the great work they do. Yet, they are as important and magnificent as those of us who do.
Behind this website which bears my name are people like Heather who helps post content and gets the daily email letter out each day. Brian who edits all the videos, Ria who keeps me and my paperwork sane, Paul who spreads the word with his awesome PR and management skills. Those are my Nighttime Waves, so special in their own way, creating their magnificence without all of you to make hooray. Thank goodness, however, they are not as fleeting and retreating as those real nighttime waves.
August 26, 2009: Greetings To All My New Guideposts Friends!
Just want to place out the welcome mat for all you new visitors who are finding this website thanks to the recent article in Guideposts Magazine.
When they had me pose for the fun picture by leaping into the air on top of Atlanta's Stone Mountain, I had no idea it would lead to all this great attention. Who knew one uncoordinated jump could bring so much good?
Now that you've found us, please make yourself at home. You'll find 13 different buckets or categories of stories. We have a social online community (link) where you can post your own stories. And, if you like, I'd love to stop by your email box each day with the Daily Daryn. That way you don't have to remember to be inspired, I come to you!
My team and I put up new stories each day, so come back often.
And thanks again to the Guideposts folks! We are looking forward to April when Guideposts will publish my next book. Here's a hint, my fellow animal lovers—I have a co-writer and he has 3-legs. Yes, it's my recently departed dear dear buddy, Tripod, The 3-Legged Wonder Cat. More details as we get closer to publication time.
Meanwhile, you can also get lots of updates and follow what's happening around here by following me on Twitter.
August 19, 2009: If You Do Nothing Else READ This Amazing Article!
I just spent 15 minutes more on my lunch break than I had budgeted today because I couldn't tear myself awayfrom one of the best pieces of journalism I've read in I don't know how long.
S.L. Price has written the most amazing piece on Marc Buoniconti for Sports Illustrated. Buoniconti is the former college football player who broke his neck while playing for The Citadel back in the '80's.
This is so much more than a "poor guy got hurt and is in a wheelchair" piece. It's about how 3 lives can be intertwined in ways you can't imagine. And how most importantly, how one person can really show the world What's Possible.
It also reminds me that even when something happens that I would never pick to happen in a million years, life has a way of working out. Do you need to remember that again? Read this piece.
You love football? Read this piece. You don't care a bit about football? Read this piece.
If you're an SI subscriber like me, chances are this week's edition is in your mailbox today. Run home and crack it open to the cover story, The Rehabiltation of Marc Buoniconti: Three Lives, Two Hits, One Happy Ending.
For everyone else, here's the link. It's a ridiculously long piece for online, so I would encourage you to pick up a print copy at the store. If nothing else, you're throwing some well-deserved coin toward Sports Illustrated.
S.L.-it's this kind of writing and storytelling that made me first fall in love with Sports Illustrated and sports reporting in general. Way to go!
August 17, 2009: Talk About Talent!
What a great tip!
I've shared on this blog that one of my favorite shows of the summer is America's Got Talent. It's just so fun to watch regular Americans go for their dreams and share their passion for performing.
Apparently, this is not unique to Americans. Of course we know from Susan Boyle that Britain's Got Talent is a huge hit in that country. That's just the beginning. The show is a hit all over the world.
Over the weekend, Peter Lysymanka of College Park, MD sent me a message on Twitter telling me I had to check out the winner of Ukraine's Got Talent. Yes, Ukraine!
Clearly, this winner isn't your runoff the mill opera singer or dancer. No, Kseniya Simonova is a sand animator. What's that? You have to see it to believe it. She is capturing something far deeper than we Americans access for our popular entertainment. She's inspired by the story of Germany conquering Ukraine during WWII. Sounds heavy I know. Just check her out and see how she moves her native audience.
She will move and amaze you, too. I'm sure of it.
By the way, I did some surfing around the internet of this talented young lady. She won a million Ukraninan Hryvnia as the grand prize. That works out to about $125,000.
It got me thinking. What talent do you think it would be fun to have? I share mine over in our social online community. Please share yours.
And don't forget: you can follow me on Twitter here.
August 5, 2009: Do Animals Grieve?
I have to say I wouldn't have believed it if I wasn't seeing this myself.
I think DarlaDog is grieving the loss of our beloved Tripod The 3-Legged Wonder Cat.
For those just checking in, the blog entry below will bring you up to date. Reader's Digest is our amazing and wonderful Tripod passed away Friday at the age of at least 19. "At least" because in the more than our 17 years together he never did let on exactly how old he was.
I had heard other people share stories of their remaining animals grieving the loss of another pet. Honestly, I never did give those stories much credence. Always thought it was a case of people projecting their own feelings and perceptions onto their animals.
And my only other experience with this was with Tripod himself. See, at one point, long before DarlaDog, I actually had two 3-legged cats. First came Tripod, then I-lean. (Get it?) We had I-Lean for a couple of years before I had to put him down. Took him in as a much older cat. I watched Pod for signs of grieving. Instead, I do believe I saw pure relief and joy, as if he was saying, "Y'know what? We didn't need that cat. We certainly don't need another cat! This only child thing works for me just fine."
And that's how it was for some time, until I brought DarlaPuppy home. This arrangement worked out much better for Tripod. He took one swipe acrossDarla's nose with that one front leg and that pretty much set the alpha order for the next 9 years. Darla understood that this was simply Tripod's world and we all simply visit.
They got along just fine. Darla respected Tripod. Tripod respected Tripod. Sometimes they would hang in the same area of the house, like this recent picture on the deck. Sometimes separate rooms.
But they never played together or cuddled or any of that cute stuff you see in those photo essays of cute animal buddies that friends like to send.
That's why I didn't expect much reaction from Darla when Tripod passed.
But I gotta tell you. She has been one mopey dog. Kinda slow. Kinda not interested in many of her happy things. "Darla, you want to take a walk?" That prompt usually makes her spring to her feet. Now, she just kinda sighs and rolls over as if to say, "Nah, that's okay, I'll stay here."
I've made an appointment at the vet tomorrow just to make sure everything is physically okay with DarlaDog. Meanwhile, I'm wondering what your experience has been with this situation? Have you seen your animals grieve? Any ideas?
Please share over in our social online community. I'll tell you right now, the answer, "Time to get another cat," is not the one I'm looking for. Perhaps in time, but definitely not right now.
Would love to hear from you.
August 3, 2009: One Fine Cat
Dear Friends,
Today, I celebrate the life of one fine cat.
Actually, I can honestly tell you my sweet Tripod was the most magnificent 3-legged cat ever to hop this earth.
We said, "Goodbye," Friday. At the age of 19, his brave body was just plain worn out. I should say, at least 19 years old. When he adopted me more than 17 years ago, he was already full-grown. Well, except for that missing front leg.
In all those years together, he never did tell me his true age or whatever happened to that missing leg.
Perhaps he never got around to it because he was busy with so many other things. There was cuddling to do. Birds to catch, and for the last 9 years, DarlaDog to boss around. No time for casual conversation.
However, there ALWAYS was time for socializing. A more people-loving cat has yet to be born. No lack of ego with Pod. He was always convinced that anyone who came to the house came to see him. What possible other reason could they have. Guest after guest was greeted at the front door with a meow, and if they were willing, a multi-hour lap snuggle.
I've watched countless self-professed cat haters fall in love with Tripod. He just had that it.
Way back in 1992 I as a local TV reporter in Phoenix. Focused, goal-driven. Didn't even have a plant that I watered. But one day, I was sent to do a story at the Arizona Humane Society. It was a story about dogs or something. The wacky media rep happened to say to me, "Oh, you have to see this stray cat that came in. He only has 3 legs!"
She took me in the back, opened a cage and pulled out the most handsome ball of gray and white fur I'd ever seen. As she handed him to me, he gave me this huge hug using that one front arm. I was hooked.
More than 17-years later our chapter ended as it began, in my arms. This time is I who able to hug and cradle him as he slipped away.
It's amazing how much space one cat can take up in an entire house. But it sure seems empty around here today.
I'd love to know from you wonderful friends how you've said goodbye to your beloved furry best friends.
Please share here, over in our social online community.
My heart is heavy.
July 23, 2009: Special House Guests On The Way!
I'm very excited because I have some very special house guests arriving tomorrow. Kate Fletcher and Gladys Maina are the amazing women who run Hekima Place. That's the incredible home for girl scholars in Kenya where I spent last Christmas.
You can get a glimpse of this amazing place and my African adventure here.
Meanwhile, I'm hoping to pick the hearts and minds of my magnificent people: What are the special touches you like to do for your house guests?
July 20, 2009: Now, That's An Invitation I Accept!
I received an interesting phone call from the folks at Tonic.com a few months ago. They're on a mission to what they call a home for all things good.
I guess they consider me and my brand of news one of those good things because they've asked me to be a part of what they do.
After a little testing, tinkering, and trying out we've come up with The Daily Tonic Minute. You can think of it as a mini-newscast of positively good things happening in the world.
I'm thrilled to do it. Starts today.
Not to worry. I'm not going anywhere. This is still home. In fact, you'll find a link to Tonic.com on the home page. So, feel to keep making this a daily destination. Think of it as your first stop as I give a road map of all things good here and elsewhere on the web.
And if you're just finding DarynKagan.com from Tonic, then Welcome! I'm thrilled to have you!
Feel free to click around the 13 different buckets that are full of inspiring news. Come over into our social online community where you can post your own stories, blogs, photos, and videos.
Sign up for our daily newsletter. That way you don't have to remember to get inspired. I'll come to you with links to the best stories of the day.
If Twitter works better for you you, then, please follow me here.
Where ever we meet, I'm so glad to be bringing the good and inspiring news to you.
July 8, 2009: Uncommon! Yes, That's It!
I came across a song this week that immediately made my heart open up and say, "Yes, that's it! That's my life!"
It's called, "Uncommon."
Some of you might be saying, "Er, Daryn, you're a little late finding that treasure." After all, the song came out in January as the theme song for the book Uncommon written by Super Bowl winning coach Tony Dungy. Award-winning singer/songwriter Matthew wrote it. Greg Long and Kristy Starling perform it.
I came across it now thanks to my friends, Bob and Kristen Venberg. They've chosen an uncommon path for their family, pulling their two young kids out of school and traveling Europe for a year. They're sharing their journey with their people on a private blog. And on there was this song.
I can't share Bob and Kristen's blog with you, but I did find this video on YouTube. Take a listen.
What do you think? Did it move you, too? Can you see why I immediately thought, "Yes! That's what I'm doing—living an uncommon life and loving it!"
Please share your thoughts over in our social online community. And let me know of any other songs that you feel tell your story.
And for those of you who are really into Uncommon, here are the lyrics:
"UNCOMMON" MATTHEW WEST
WHAT IF THERE'S SOMETHING BIGGER FOR ME OUT THERE THAN THE COMFORT OF A LIFE ON THIS MIDDLE GROUND? I'VE PLAYED IT SAFE BUT NOW I CAN'T HELP BUT WONDER IF MAYBE I'VE BEEN MISSING OUT
'CAUSE I LOOK AROUND AND SEE A SEA OF PEOPLE EVERYBODY'S MOVING IN THE SAME DIRECTION AND I THINK IT'S TIME TO BREAK AWAY, BREAK AWAY
CHORUS I WANNA FINALLY TAKE THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED I WANNA RUN AWAY FROM ANYTHING TYPICAL I WANT THE WORLD TO SEE THE LIFE I'M LIVIN' AND CALL IT UNCOMMON
V2 WHAT IF THE RIGHT THING WAS HARDER THAN THE WRONG THING BUT I DID IT ANYWAY? STANDING STRONG EVEN WHEN NO ONE ELSE WAS WATCHING WHAT IF I REALLY LIVED THAT WAY?
EVERY HEART HAS ITS DEFINING MOMENT THIS IS MINE AND I'M NOT GONNA MISS IT
CHORUS 2 I'M WANNA FINALLY TAKE THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED I WANNA RUN AWAY FROM ANYTHING TYPICAL I WANT THE WORLD TO SEE THE LIFE I'M LIVIN' AND CALL IT UNCOMMON
I DON'T CARE IF IT MAKES ME LOOK DIFFERENT I'M NEVER LETTING GO OF MY CONVICTIONS LET THE WORLD SEE THE LIFE I'M LIVIN' AND CALL IT UNCOMMON
V3 WHAT IF I MADE IT TO THE END OF MY DAYS HERE ONLY TO FIND THAT MY LEGACY IS NOWHERE TO BE FOUND I DON'T WANNA WASTE ANOTHER SECOND GIVE ME THE STRENGTH TO START RIGHT NOW
CHORUS
July 6, 2009: More Giggles In The Kitchen
I hope everyone had a super 4th of July holiday!
It was wonderful around here. My former neighbors from Phoenix, Bruce and Teresa, came for a visit with their son, Brandon.
About the time I left Phoenix for Atlanta; they moved back to Bruce's native Australia. All these years later they've moved back to the States and came down for a visit over the holiday weekend.
What a perfect time, as I usually throw a "Go Somewhere Else For BBQ & Swim/Come To My House For Dessert & Fireworks" Party. See, there's a great view of Atlanta fireworks off my deck. And it's an super easy party to throw. By 8pm, everyone is full up of junk food and drink. They don't want a lot of food out on the table.
Not that I'm stingy in offering guests food, it's just that as I've often shared here, I'm rather cuisine challenged.
I already had "Happy Birthday America" cake ordered from local bakery, but wanted to step it up a notch for Bruce, Teresa, and Brandon. So off I went to mycurrent #1 resources: Twitter and Facebook.
"What's your favorite dessert to serve on 4th of July?" I asked.
A ton of great suggestions came pouring in. Blueberry cobbler, Meringue with peach slices, Key Lime Pie, Ice Cream.
Ashley Reynolds of WYMT-TV in Hazard, KY sent the one that caught my eye. "Strawberries, sour cream, and brown sugar! My fave!" she posted.
Sounded intriguing. But my kitchen insecurity kicked in. Had to know the exact recipe.
"Sounds great," I posted back. "What's the recipe."
"Er, no actual recipe," Ashley must've been laughing her head off. "It's just strawberries, bowl of sour cream, and another of brown sugar. Let your guest dip away."
Had to laugh myself. Laughed my way all the way to the market. This is a "recipe" that is just my speed. Picked up a bunch of strawberries, carton of sour cream and the brown sugar.
It was really delicious and a huge hit with all the guests. Even I couldn't ruin that one.
So next time you are dessert challenged, feel free to try it out. Just remember to tell folks where you got the "receipe."
I just want to give a shout out to Nancy Colasurdo.
She writes a column for FoxBusiness.com.
We had a wonderful conversation last week about picking up the pieces after losing your job.
She turned it into a great column that you can see here.
Two and half years later, it does my heart good to look at how well something has turned out for me, something I would've never picked for myself. Funny how life works out that way. :)
And as a long-time CNN gal, I always gets a kick out of being featured on anything Fox. :)
June 24, 2009: My People Meet My People
So I have this great joy. I love it when my people meet my people.
You know that opportunity when you connect and introduce two people who you know from different parts of your life?
I also know when I've met my people.
Such was the case a couple of years ago. I stopped by ABC to do some interviews promoting DarynKagan.com.
My interviewer was a spunky young woman named Heidi Jones. She's a weather anchor on WABC-TV in New York. And she helps out on the network side whenever she can.
She did a great interview. Clearly got right away what DarynKagan.com is all about. You can see that interview here.
Once the lights and cameras were turned off we had a chance to gab about a shared passion: running.
I've often told you how it is my drug of choice. Apparently, it's the same for Heidi. She's taken her running to the next step, forming a team of not-so-experienced runners to help spark inspiration in life.
They are a great and varied group and very inspiring.
You can meet them in today's featured story and follow Heidi's journey of leading this wonderful group on her blog.
I'm sure you'll be able to tell right away why she's such a success on TV and you'll want to have her as one of your people, too.
So, my people meet my people!
June 22, 2009: On Why It Was A Naked Weekend
There's no getting around it.
I felt naked this weekend.
And not the good kind of naked.
Or "nekkid" as we say here in the South.
I was naked because I was without my cell phone.
This was not a planned separation, rather instantaneous.
Happened as soon as I dropped it in water.
That dreaded splash sound and we were instantly more broken up than Jon & Kate Plus 8.
Being as I'm one who likes happy endings, I'm going to fast forward to that part first.
And being as this 2009, a crisis happens, who ya gunna call? Well, Twitter, of course, which in my world is also connected to Facebook.
Here are my actual tweets from immediately post-splash:
funny thing about Mr. iPhone- doesn't like getting dunked in water. tips for iPhone dehyradration CPR? Or is there a new 3Gs in my future?
New 3Gs? Coincidentally, Apple came out with a new iPhone last week, one that has a sweet video feature that has definitely caught my eye. One tweeter suggested I dropped my iPhone in the water on purpose!
jabberjw you could be right! Would be the ultimate freudian slip..when iPhone "slipped" into water, I tweeted back.
Actually, I swear I didn't do it on purpose. The dreaming about the new iPhone was more a defense mechanism. What else you going to do when you break up? You instantly start thinking about the next one and that one might be better than the one who just broke your heart.
Before I could start making designs on what I would do with a new iPhone, the suggestions started pouring in.
Like this one from my buddy, Steve Scott at WCBS radio in NYC.
SteveScottWCBSDarynKagan I've heard that packing a wet phone in rice can help dry it out. Seriously. Don't know if it's a wive's tale...or really works.
Dry rice?
Never heard of that one, but figured I'd give it a try.
Out came the box of good ol' Uncle Ben's. I poured a generous portion into a paper bag and buried Mr. iPhone.
Gotta say as Saturday faded into Sunday, separation anxiety set in. Forget how new and shiny the new iPhone sounded, I just wanted my old one back!
Things were looking too good. Met friends for running, then brunch, then pool, all without having any access to my phone, mobile email, games, text messages, AOL Radio, music.
Egad! I'm shaking just thinking about it! Now you know what I mean about feeling naked!
I thought I could be all brave and give the phone a week to dry out. By the time I got home from the pool, I was done, weak, conquered and broken. Went online to see how late Apple Store was open. I had to remedy this tonight!
Just to see how bad things were, I dug Mr. iPhone out of the pile of rice and turned him on.
Hmmmm….that black screen seemed just a bit brighter than it did last night. Could it be? I was now able to check voicemail.
I plugged headphones in to see if the iPod function worked and bam! All circuits were a go! I pushed all sorts of different icons and everyone worked just fine.
Hooyah! It was if the doctors on Grey's Anatomy brought him back to life!
I am so happy and relieved that we are back together. For those in my immediate circle, I am now call-able, text-able, emailable, just generally over all reachable!
To all you in the Twitter and Facebook universe who talked me through the crisis! Thank you!
And for all you with slippery phones that might soon take that unfortunate splash—remember: RICE! Dry, uncooked rice. My cooking never tasted so good!
June 18, 2009: Yay For Grandparents!
Do you have an awesome grandparent in your life?
If so, Grand Magazine wants to know about them. Grand is the online magazine for grandparents and the grandkids who love them.
Along with Humana, they are running the Grandparent of the Year Contest. They want to hear about that unconditional loving bond between grandkids and grandparents.
It's pretty simple. Nominations will be accepted from everyone: grandchildren, daughters, sons, husbands, wives, neighbors, friends. Simply write 150 words and tell them why your nominee should be the 2009 GRANDParent of the Year.
There will be 10 finalists and the winner gets a 5 day/ 4 night trip to Orlando. Four people get to go.
So fire up those computers and let the world know about the special grandparent in your life.
Just want to send a "shout out" to all the old friends I saw in Phoenix this weekend.
KTVK-TV, the station I worked at in the early '90's decided to have a reunion.
I'm so glad I flew back to Phoenix to catch up with old friends.
My friend, Lisa, likes to say that everything has a good and a bad side.
Truth be told, those were some challenging years in Phoenix. KTVK was a station where if you were blonde you were the news anchor. If you were brunette, you were the reporter.
Er, not a big leap to figure out what my job was.
Even though I never got the big time anchor job or promotional billboard on I-17, I can look back now and realize how important those years were.
5 ½ years of really learning how to be reporter at one of the best local news outfits in the country. I've long known that's what got me ready to be a news anchor at CNN and also prepared me for what I do now with DarynKagan.com.
More importantly, this weekend was a great reconnect with all the special people I got to work with in that time. The other reporters, anchors, photographers, producers, editors, and yes, even the bosses.
Good stuff. Great people. So nice to be part of what we will always call, "Arizona's Family."
June 11, 2009: How Sweet It Is
A little reminder for all your kids of all ages out there. Father's Day is coming up next weekend.
I'm reminded once again this year about an awesome way to celebrate dads and some special families.
Wendy's Restaurants picks this time of year to do a special promotion to support adoption.
Founder Dave Thomas was adopted and spent his life encouraging others to give kids the family they crave.
Once again this year, Wendy's will donate 50 cents to the Dave Thomas Foundation For Adoption for every Frosty purchased over Father's Day weekend.
And they have a new fun feature they've added this year. They're making it possible for you to send your dad a Frosty Card. It's an e-card that lets you send your love directly into Dad's inbox. They have some celebrity inspired designs to choose from. And for every free Frosty Card sent, Wendy's will donate 25 cents to the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption.
Talk about winners all the way around! Dads, kids looking for great homes, and Wendy's for supporting such a great cause.
June 8, 2008: Swim With The Sharks!
Now there's an inspiring headline, no?
It is, if you have a big business dream, but not the cash to make it happen.
He's about to take to the airwaves with a new show called, Shark Tank.
He is now on a nationwide search to discover the next successful – and possibly wealthy – entrepreneurs, inventors, businesspersons, dreamers, promoters, creators and innovators.
In each episode of Shark Tank, budding entrepreneurs are given the unprecedented chance to make their business ideas come true.
This is what Burnett's casting agents are saying:
If you feel you have a lucrative business idea but just can't seem to secure the financial backing to get it off the ground, then "Shark Tank" is just the show for you. Casting is looking for aspiring entrepreneurs who can pitch their breakthrough business concepts, products, properties and services to moguls in hopes of landing investment funds. If selected, five real-life, tough investors could be willing to part with their own hard-earned cash and give you the funding you need to jumpstart your idea. But the investors, also known as Sharks, aren't just out to invest, they too have a goal: to own a piece of your next big idea.
Apply now for your chance to enter the "Shark Tank" and see if your ideasurvives. Email us at SharkTankCastingyahoo.com. Be sure to include your name, age, contact info, a recent photo, and a brief description of your idea.
Good luck!
June 5, 2009: Happy National Donut Day!
With great apologies to all the cardiologists out there, I want to be the first to wish you, "Happy National Donut Day!"
It's true. It's really today.
Apparently, it's not just some newly created marketing holiday. A little research shows me there's a great spirit behind the day.
National Donut Day, after all, started in 1938 as a fundraiser for The Salvation Army, to honor the Salvation Army "Lassies" who served donuts to soldiers behind the front lines in France during World War I. The non-profit organization created the memorable observance to honor the work of Salvation Army volunteers who prepared donuts for homesick soldiers. The donuts were reportedly an instant hit, with soldiers visiting Salvation Army huts for the sweet treat.
In that spirit, Basha's Markets in Arizona will donate 10% of today's donut sales to the Salvation Army. They're also delivering dozens of fresh-baked donuts to police departments in the Phoenix area.
Across America, Dunkin' Donuts wants to share the love with you, too. Participating stores will give you a free donut today when you buy a beverage.
Gets your donut wheels spinning, doesn't it? Makes me wonder, what is YOUR favorite donut flavor, shop, or memory? We're sharing over in our social online community.
Come see mine and I'd love to hear yours, as well.
May 26, 2009: Never A Better Time To Graduate
No, this isn't a typo. Despite all the doom and gloom you're hearing in the traditional media, there is another way of looking at things.
My friend, Mike Robbins, makes the case that NOW is an awesome time to be graduating college.
If you're a grad, a parent or know someone who is stepping out into the world, this is a conversation you will enjoy.
You can knock me over with a feather with this one.
Folks asking ME for recipes?
Anyone who knows me realizes this is about the most remarkable thing ever reported on DarynKagan.com!
My friends love me for many things. Cooking has never been one of them. My efforts have even been deemed dangerous. An attempt at Thanksgiving one year put a long ago boyfriend in the emergency room. You get the idea.
Still, I've been trying and slowly but surely building a few things I can create and share.
The highlight of my holiday weekend was hosting some dear friends for Sunday brunch. I lured them here with the promise of, "I'll just pick up some bagels at Einstein's," knowing they would think it safe to come over.
But, I got a bit more adventurous and spread my culinary wings a bit. Very successfully, I might add! I tweeted about the experience on Twitter (follow me here.) A lot of folks have been asking for recipes, so here you go. The biggest endorsement I can give: If I can turn out these dishes well, anyone can!
Magic 7 Egg Casserole 7 eggs 14 slices white bread (crust removed) 1 ½ cups grated cheddar cheese 2 ½ cups milk 1 stick butter, melted 1 tsp. salt
-cube bread -generously butter 13x9 casserole dish -layer bread and cheese (set aside) -in separate bowl whisk eggs and milk and salt -pour egg mixture over bread and cheese -pour melted butter on top of that
-cover with foil and place in fridge overnight. Take out 1 hour before baking. -place in pre-heated 350-degree oven with foil for 30 minutes. -remove foil; bake another 30 minutes uncovered.
That's it. So easy and cheap. It's great that you assemble the night before. Makes brunch morning much less stressful. I got this recipe from my mom who suggests you serve with one side of salsa, one side of jam. Some folks like this dish savory. Some like it sweet, like French toast.
Also, all my people know I hate cheese, so it cracks them up that I make this. I've also tried making half the casserole dish with no cheese. That works fine, too.
The other winner from Sunday was Carmel Monkey Bread. This is probably my favorite. I've seen variations of this recipe. Turns out my collegue, Scott Miller over at Oprah Radio, loves to make it, too. He posted this recipe on Oprah.com.
Soooo good and sooo bad all at the same time. You know what I mean.
Enjoy!
May 22, 2009: Memorial Day "Twith" Meaning
I just got off the phone with Lee Woodruff.
She and her husband, Bob, have quite the interesting campaign taking Twitter by storm!
You'll remember that Bob suffered a severe head injury back in 2006 when he was covering the war in Iraq for ABC News.
The Woodruffs have not forgotten for one second how lucky they are to get their lives and family back. So for them, it's now all about giving back.
They're looking to raise some big funds to support returning US servicemen and women.
$1.65 million is their target for the 1.65 members of the military who have deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan since 9/11.
The money goes to 36 different organizations who help vets with rehab, retraining, and re-employment.
This Memorial Day weekend they've turned their attention to Twitter. Yeah, Lee told me that like most of us when she first looked at Twitter, she went, "Huh?"
But, like many of us, hang around there long enough and you get hooked on the immediacy and the power of this social online engine.
If you don't "get" Twitter, not to worry, I'll tell you what you can do in a moment.
Meanwhile, if you do, the Woodruffs want you to tweet and share, "Who is your hero?" Make sure to include the hashmark "#tweettoremind."
They're seeing all sorts of tweets mentioning dads, grandfathers, and family members who have served in the military.
Sarah Palin even tweeted her personal hero.
Which brings up a good point. Lee stresses this campaign is not political. "You can pray for peace and support the brave heroes of our military," she told me. "They are not mutually exclusive."
So Tweets—get your heroes up there. You can follow the Woodruffs on Twitter at LeeMWoodruff and BobWoodruff.
And whether you tweet or not you can find more information and send your support at Tweettoremind.org.
Here's a great example of the awesome types of programs the Woodruffs support. Check out how vets soar at Sun Valley Adaptive Sports.
Oh, yeah, in case, you're not already following me, I'm DarynKagan.
Have a great holiday weekend and here's to all the amazing veterans who have served and sacrificed for America.
May 15, 2009: Be Yourself
My friend Mike Robbins has a new book out that shows you how to figure out who you really are, what you really want, and how to go get it.
Here's a chance to see what it's like when I hang out with one of my inspiring friends.
I can't take credit for all this good stuff that has happened since I left CNN.
The brilliant idea to strike out on my own and start my own website and media company? Wasn't mine.
Nope, my little sister, Kallan, made me do it.
All the big sisters out there will certainly appreciate how painful that is to admit. It's just not the natural orders of things! We big sisters of the world were put on this Earth to tell our little sisters what to do. Not the other way around.
And yet, the secret's out now. Paige Albiniak of Broadcasting & Cable Magazine interviewed me this week and got me to spill the beans.
(And to my Sissy: You know that's my way of saying, "Thank you!" xo YS.)
May 4, 2009: And The Winner Is……!
I have to say, "You guys rock!"
Our "Second Chances" Writing Contest was a huge hit last week. So many of you shared wonderful stories of getting, giving and wishing for second chances.
Meanwhile, I can tell you that you put guest judge Kaya McLaren in a tough spot. Her new novel On The Divinity Of Second Chances was the inspiration for asking for your stories.
The deal was supposed to be you post stories and Kaya picks a winner. Turns out that just wasn't possible. She couldn't pick! So, superstar that she is, Kaya is signing and sending copies of her book to EVERYONE who posted a story.
Here's what she writes:
All of these entries were so beautiful, and so distinct. I was often brought to tears. By the time I finished, I felt even more inspired to see the blessing in any given situation, to see the opportunity, and to have faith that I can be stronger and more courageous than I think I can be. Eileen's story resonated with me this week, as I fell off my horse a few nights ago and haven't wanted to get back on. I will though. I just need a little time out. I've figured that much out about life. The good times don't last, but the bad times don't last either. They ebb and flow, and with every change of the tides is a chance to jump in the game again.
You can see that Kaya came to find out what I've known all along: DarynKagan.com community are the best!
Thanks to all of you for sharing your stories and thanks to Kaya for her awesome book, her time, and her inspiration!
May 1, 2009: Smile!
No heavy lifting here. I simply want to send you into the weekend with a smile on your face.
That's guaranteed to happen when you watch this video.
Thanks to Debra Reese, our awesome dog guru and surrogate doggie mama to Darla Louise and Tripod for sending along.
How "pawesome" is Debra? She and her dog, Jack, stay with 'Pod and Darla when I travel. When I come home, my beloved babies look at me with that expression on their face, "Oh, you're home.. What a shame."
Yeah, like when the kid likes the nanny better than Mommy. Small price to pay knowing that 'Pod and Darla Louise are in such fine, loving care.
Thanks, Debra!
By the way, the Smile video was produced to support Best Friends Animal Society, an awesome sanctuary in Utah. I've featured them a number of times here on DarynKagan.com, including telling you about the great work they are doing rehabbing the pit bulls that used to belong to Michael Vick. Check them out!
